Swimsuit dilemna - who is brave enough?
If I had a pool in my backyard I'd be just like you - I used to dream of having a pool. I hope your mosquitoes stay away! Enjoy!
I would try a 2 peice and try women within or fashion bug online.
Good luck sweetie
Your neighbor sounds like a great friend to let you use her pool! That's really nice!
I am shopping online tonight - will put things in the virtual shopping bag and on payday I'm gonna buy! :-)
Thanks!
I am 44 years old, been heavy since I was 15, and I love to swim, and I haven't ever let anyone or anything stop me from something I love, don't worry about what other people thinks, I bet they are close to someone heavy or related, one way or the other!! shoot a couple years ago I went to Dollywood to the splash country park , and played until a t-storm made us leave, lol, I had a ball and don't care what others think!!!
and the arm and leg thing, wow, my hips are also like deflated balloons, and my arms now, well lets just say, when I have on a sleeveless shirt, my niece and nephew that is young, plays with the excess skin, wiggling it back and forth, and it does't bother me, but I do notice, I am trying to find shirts for the summer with longer sleeves, like to the elbow, and longer shorts, but the pool thing we are there to have fun, so enjoy yourself and hold your head up high!!!
Thank you Lisa! Guess what I did today - I was in Bowling Green and I tried on swim suits at Fashion Bug! I ended up buying one that really didn't support my boobs right (I need an underwire probably) and everything shows that I wish didn't show, but it's going to be ok for swimming at the Y. All the encouragement from you guys made me enthusiastic about getting a suit - and they were $10 off! lol
I got a skirtini - the top has molded cups and the bottom is a skirt with attached panty. I liked the length of the skirt - it covered the worst of my upper thighs. I will probably wear a tshirt over the to*****t - depending on who's in the pool when I get there! I am looking forward to getting in the pool and feeling that weightless effect again - it's been a long time.
I am glad I'm 54 and not 24 - it's kinda funny in a way to have such weird saggy skin. But then when I get to goal weight I will be one of those who pursue plastic surgery I bet. If only to help my clothes fit better I will need those upper arms taken care of. Dr. Shina said I would probably want a tummy tuck - I think I'll need a boob lift and arm work too. And then I'll be just fine! :-)
I feel so much better - it is all worth it. Thanks for your encouragement!