advice needed
I need some advice so im coming to you all.
But first i need to say if you dont have life insurance on yourself and your family get it.
Also im just coming to you all for advice and your opinons..
You know i told you about keith well he was 23 and passed.
Well went today to what was suppose to be a little get together befre the visitation.geuss what there isnt going to be a funeral..
He came from a very poor family and they have nothing but each other and they couldnt get the mo.ney together.
I came home and made some phone calls and got them some help.
But this my question my dh and i are waiting for an insurance check for the damage during hurricane ike we received.
Do i pay for the rest of his funeral or ask his family to pay half and we pay the other.after the help he got it leaves 1900.00
Im so torn i ate more than usual today stress i geuss.
He is just a second cousin but he called me aunt lisa and im really close to them all.
My heart says to do it my mind tells me no.....
So opinions please
I posted his picture on my profile
But first i need to say if you dont have life insurance on yourself and your family get it.
Also im just coming to you all for advice and your opinons..
You know i told you about keith well he was 23 and passed.
Well went today to what was suppose to be a little get together befre the visitation.geuss what there isnt going to be a funeral..
He came from a very poor family and they have nothing but each other and they couldnt get the mo.ney together.
I came home and made some phone calls and got them some help.
But this my question my dh and i are waiting for an insurance check for the damage during hurricane ike we received.
Do i pay for the rest of his funeral or ask his family to pay half and we pay the other.after the help he got it leaves 1900.00
Im so torn i ate more than usual today stress i geuss.
He is just a second cousin but he called me aunt lisa and im really close to them all.
My heart says to do it my mind tells me no.....
So opinions please
I posted his picture on my profile
Lisa,
If I were in this situation I would simply decide which action I would regret the most and go with the other.
You sound like me and while the amount you mentioned is indeed a large sum it simply pales in comparison to a decision that you'll turn over and over in your mind for a long time to come if you don't go with the answer that brings you contentment.
I also wanted to tell you that you look great and your family looks like they are a fun gang!
~BECKA~ Start - 254 / Current - 172.6 / Goal - 160
Just another Bariatric Babe!!
Just another Bariatric Babe!! 
Well...I am kinda posting after the fact but Becka is right. It is sometimes hard to decide. I try to help whenever I can, but am chosey about who I help. I have to be. I have been taken before and refuse to let it happen again. BUT....one thing a friend of mine told me a long time agao....if you give freely from your heart to someone who is in need...it will come back to you in some way. He is a retired minister and like a second father to me. Just my 2 cents. becka is right you are looking good Lisa! Hope you guys can come to one of our get togethers sometime!
Oh LeeAnn
I would love to it sounds like you all have alot of fun.
Yell my grammy used to say what you give comes back to you twice fold.
Its all taken care of i just hope the rest of the family gets prepared so no one else has to go thru this..
Im going out with friends so neil and i can have some us time with adults.lol
Thanks everyone
I would love to it sounds like you all have alot of fun.
Yell my grammy used to say what you give comes back to you twice fold.
Its all taken care of i just hope the rest of the family gets prepared so no one else has to go thru this..
Im going out with friends so neil and i can have some us time with adults.lol
Thanks everyone
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