oh no you didnt

Post Date: 10/9/08 4:15 pm
Last Edit: 10/9/08 4:17 pm
Im ready to shoot my hubby ..
Why you may ask well  at the dinner after the memorial service yesterday he fixed himself a plateof pretzel bread sandwich,tater salad and cole slaw
well he sits it in front of me and walks off.damn i sip my water he comes back 10 minutes later and eats then fixs his dessert plate and leaves again this time its brownies and cookies calling my name ..
Finally he comes back with another plate of food and says oh i forgot about my desserts and i could have slapped him...
Last weekend at the fair he got a pretzel with cheese and says honey hold this i forgot my drink..
Then tonight he comes in and hands me a big red ..wth
I tell him hunny what the hell are you doing and he says i forgot..well i didnt.
His sister called me today and said she watched him yesterday and thought maybe he was trying to sabotage me, she said she couldnt have sit there like i did and not eat the food.well i could have got up and moved..
I told her my stomach doesnt want the stuff but my eyes and head do.
I think you all call them food pushers.
Do you all feel like your being sabotaged sometimes or are men really that unaware of what they are doing?
Oh by the way im not gonna shoot him i dont know where he keeps the bullets..

Hmmm...Well what has got into Neil's head! Maybe because of all the stress with the funeral and all he really was not thinking? Just playing devil's advocate! Dale does this crap to me all the time...Pi**es me off but I have tried very hard to tune him out. He was eating a candy bar the other night and when I got done bawling my eyes out over my bad day...really bad...he offered me one. I started to open it and realized i was eating it out of emotions and threw it at him. He then had the balls to say...you always want chocolate when you are upset! I wanted to ***** slap into tomorrow! EATING LIKE THAT HELPED ME GET THIS FAR GONE! is what I yelled at him. I started crying harder and eventually fell asleep...it was a really really bad day!  So yes...i definitely have a sabotager in my midst! I just call him A**HOLE

LeeAnn
Neil has gained 19 pounds he changed jobs and eating habits.
My boys are losing  ,so i tell him its his breakfast of biscuits and gravy its not allowed in the house so he eats it at work..
When he is with family its like good food and good company.
But he is trying to quit smoking and i think thats part of his problem..
Im just glad i have had the surgery and it gives me the ability to say no...
Oh Lee Ann dont cry get even..you are so funny

i think they get insecure and dont think really what they are doing, my husband has started gorging himself since i lost weight, and i have been trying to stop smoking taking chantix for 3 weeks and every night he brings me cigarettes home.

I know he didnt mean any harm he wasnt thinking..
He has gained 19 pounds and i tell him its cause he eats everything i cant..lol
But he has had a job change and is eating out twice a day biscuits and gravy in the morin and usually cheeseburgers for lunch.
I try to get him to pack from home..
He is my biggest cheerleader and i know he would do nothing to hurt me on purpose..
Good luck with your kicking the habit.
Neil is trying also it cost to much..

I think men are just totally oblivious sometimes, especially when it involves one of their 3 basic needs.........food, sleep and......well, you know......