negative people aggervate me !

A girl i met from another weight loss message board isn't supportive at all. She says I'm taking the easy way out by looking into surgery. WTH  This isn't going to be easy. There is alot of work involved in this lifestyle change as well.  I think she's just jealous, what do you think. hehehe.   

She obivously doesn't know shi*.  It involves you watching what you eat and exercising.  She must not have a weight problem or a brain.   Amy K

Lol...go Amy! She is right Holli.....and she must not have anything better to do! You are going to run into people like this. My boyfriend was the same way...after he saw what all I went through, he realized nothing about losing weight is easy!

she is obviously a moron.  Just what about putting your life at risk by having surgery is easy?   No more buffet lines for me.  Other than that though I don't work hard at exercising or dieting, I eat what I want.  Losing the weight has been effortless, learning how to deal with my new smaller stomach hasn't been.

It is not easy. It takes hard work and dedication. Please do not allow negitive people to bother you. If you do , you give them power that the do not deserve. take care of YOU and smile. Love ya Gerri

Just what does she suggest you do? You know what's best for you, you know you better than anyone else.  You keep going and don't take in the negativity.  We don't have time in this life for people to be negative... You go girl!

 

when I started with the weight loss I told some ppl & got neg feedback so I stopped telling ppl I knew what was going to keep me alive & healthy so I just kept my mouth shut ,now all I got to say to those ppl LOOK AT ME NOW I AM THE BEST I BEEN IN MY WHOLE LIFE ,& would do it again in a heart beat so block out those ppl & you know what is best for you ,best of luck

I would not listen to people like that. What do they know? Not what is best for you and your health. Dont let it get to you.

I don't think it is taking the easy way out either, but so what, if it gets the job done and gets us on the road to better health....we are better off than.  Is she doing anything at all about her weight?    Just my opinion :))