OT: My brothers the alchoholic and the mean one....

Once again my youngest brothers are well, I don't know. I love them all 3 but Randall and David. I don't know what we're going to do.  David came in last night late drunk. Randall was sober. From what I can tell David went to bed, drunk. He and Randall must have been mouthing at each other because mom says Randall started beating the **** out of David while he was laying down in the bed. Mom tried to pull Randall off David and he kept shoving her away. She finally got him out of the room, david went outside, mom got dad down there to get david. David and dad were in david's room while he was trying to get dressed and randall came back in there mouthing off about david being lazy, worthless, piece of **** Randall has a bad temper in case I haven't gotten that across yet. He went after David again and in the process shoved dad down to the floor. What can I do? Mom just got out of the hospital last week after having a stress induced seizure. How can I beat this into their heads that mom can't take this? The doc told her stress would kill her if she didn't get a handle on it. Now mom's down there talking about she doesn't have a reason to live. That it hurt her to see David come in drunk and now she can't get the imagine of Randall beating up a drunk David while he was laying down. I've her 2 different stories on that part. Danielle says David started it by stumbling around in the kitchen making a mess. Last weekend David came in drunk and peed, pooped, puked all over the house. Threw food everywhere. I don't know what to do. I love all my brothers dearly but how can u make them see their killing mom? How does a big sister fix this? If nothing else, say a prayer for mom and the boys. I don't know what else to do. Danielle says she, Randall and Bailey are looking for apt. Maybe that would be best. I don't know. I just know mom's nerves can't take this.

Take them to a local hospital to detox.  If the hospital won't take them let them know they are a threat to others.  I went through this with my sister in law 2 years ago. Got her in a rehab facility then she threatened another patient.  They called the cops.  We told her she was on her on. Tough Love.  She is now clean and sober. IF you don't play their game they get tired of it.

how old are your brothers?  why are they still living with your mother and behaving this way? if they are underage they need help and should be taken to a treatment facility quickly. 

YOUR MOM & DAD I KNOW LOVE THERE KIDS NO MATTER WHAT BUT THERE IS A LIMIT ,when they are sober you need to set down with them & tell them you dnt apericate how they are acting & straighten up ,I went thru this with my younger sis ,& trust me prayer doeschang things ,they are comming your way take care & best of luck & they need to be kicked out of the house there is such a thing as abuse on the elderly tell them to get out & they are killing your mom & dad !!