Almost time! But bad news!

My surgery is on the 6th and I think Im getting excited, and nervous! I feel guilty having the surgery after my mom called me on Sat and told me that my 29yr old cousin had a stroke and the hospital put him in a medical induced coma and he had a anurisum and it burst so on sunday they pronounced him brain dead,,, I really feel bad cause Im not there with my family and I really dont know what to do! He hasnt passed yet and they live about 1.5 hrs away? Am I doing the right thing? Thanks for any advice! Misty

Sweetie Im sorry about your cousin . Also i understand about getting nervous mine is the 20th and im getting nervous also. I would talk to my mom and explain the prepartions it took for you to get where you are with your surgery. Im sure the family would understand. If you live 1.5 miles away i would go now and say my goodbyes  to him and get back home and get ready fr my day.. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers..

Thanks Lizzie I really needed some advice! I really feel the same way, but I still feel bad for not being there with my family! My surgery is tomorrow so im getting excited but a little nervous! I just can't wait to start my new journey to a healthier life!  Thanks a Bunch 

Hang in there and I think  you are doing the right thing.  Hope you are doing well and sorry I didnt get to get to see before I left the hospital.  I just wanted to get out of there.