kinda OT.... WTH?????

Fire princess HUH!!!! wonder what that is about??? As for the weight in the few times that I have seen you Sarah, you have nothing to worry about. You are doing great and look pretty good too. So don't worry about the meanies/haters at your work. If it gets bad you can call me and I will reassure you.

yea i was feeling a bit .... whats the word here..........*****y so i changed my name. Do ya like it??? TY, i generally dont worry about the comments but it seems i have alot of issues (not all bad) dealing with the new bod i have.

Thats hilarious I hardly ever hear anyone saying they feel *****y! But for you I think it fits. In my mind I could see that name sticking to you.

ok so you are saying that im *****y... lol does that mean i have personality also?

Well from what I know of you I think you are just covered in personality. You are always one of the first people here to greet and congratulate others. You are always thinking of new ideas to try out. So yeah I think youy are full of *****

Ok...the amateur Psychologist speaking for a minute.... One thing you need to understand and realize...you look different. Just like the weight loss has not caught up with your brain...it hasn't with other people's either. I will NEVER understand why people say the things they do but I will say that sometimes, people say things and really do not intend on being rude or insensitive. Maybe they think they are giving you a compliment by saying that you are thin enough. Who knows? Just like people don't mean to hurt my feelings by saying "why did you have that surgery...you aren't big enough...you don't need that....just diet and exercise..." Those things are not really "negative" but they are to me because those comments are made without knowing how I feel inside. I probably have looked at you or Jane and thought that you both look GREAT already and that you don't really need to lose any more weight. Meaning, if you didn't lose another pound...you have still succeeded in a HUGE way. You have to meet the goals that you have set for yourself. Do you look sick....NO. Do you look "too thin"? What the heck is TOO THIN? Is there even such a thing as being too thin? I would say that you have to be careful with losing too much when your body is still morphing into a heavy person. I think that when you hit the goal you AND your doctor has set....you should try to maintain that. As long as you do that, you are FINE. As far as telling you the horror stories...I don't know why people do that either. Why do people tell a pregnant person horror stories about child birth? Because they Can! One more thing, you also need to understand that some people really don't know WHAT to say. They know you look different....they know you look good....they know that you feel better....and they don't know how to just give a dang compliment and move on. Let it roll off your back...hold your head high....and say "Thank you" with a smile. Take everything as a compliment and then you won't get down. That is what I am doing when people make comments to me....I just say "thanks for saying that...that is very nice" and leave it at that. I am sure that there may come a time when you just stop telling strangers that you have had surgery....be proud but understand that not everyone is proud with you. K....nuff Psychoanalysis. Luv ya

Thank ya bunches... hmmm where is the leather couch at... i kinda feel like i needed one for that lol... I feel better now Love ya bunches!!

You know me..... Always the Amateur Psychologist!! I'll send you my bill

You look great!! Don't let people get you down. I remember when I lost weight my family was telling constantly how "sick" I looked. I have some pictures of me at 145 and I think I looked my best and did not look sick at all. They were just use to me being xlarge. This time when I get down to that size I'm ready for their "you look sick" comments. I now know better.