in the dumps

hello well i have lost 35lbs but i still cant tell it. i feel iam losing slowly instead of fast. im been looking for clothes 2x-3x cause im looking for a job no luck so far. iam waiting for court date for my ssi. my daugther bday is next month and i dont have money to get her any thing. or decent clothes for job an dont even have way to pay shipping if someone stuff i was intrested in . did you lose ur weight slow or fast? y mine seem like it is being slow when will i be able to tell instead of just others being able to . sorry just in the dumps got lot going on not sure how to do any of it

I'm gonna try to help somehow!!

Jennifer, I don't have any clothes, (I'm a 5x-6x, pre-op) but I do want to let you know I'm thinking of you and hope that you get to feeling better soon. It's difficult when money is tight, causing so much stress, and I too can relate to that one. Hang in there and soon it will all come together. Take care-- Dee