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kelsh74
on 3/26/07 8:37 am - Wichita, KS
on 3/26/07 8:37 am - Wichita, KS
Topic: I am a Bandster!!
I am a Bandster! I just got home yesterday from Mx. It was very different, but a good experience! Dr Kuri was great and I am doing good a little sore. Has any one heard of a support group in Wichita? Kelli
Topic: RE: Bad gallbladder update on St Francis
I had my GB out 10 years ago and the turn around was that fast too... I haven't met Dr. Bersten but my surgeons were Steward and Dunshee.
They did an excellent job on my gastric bypass... I really like the Dr.'s at Tallgrass!
Good luck in your recovery!
Amie
Topic: RE: Thinking about having Lap Band surgery and have a couple of questions!!!!!!!
I had lap band on 12/14/05 and had to have it removed 11/7/06. It had grown into my stomach wall. I actually started experiencing pain in April of 2006 - horrible pain but my surgeon would not listen to me. The weight loss is really slow. I never felt the resistance they talk about. I contracted a super-bug staph infection known as MRSA when I had it removed and almost died. Ambulance rides, 20 day stays in the hospital, thousands of dollars worth of new debt...I paid $15,000 to have the stupid thing put in to begin with because my insurance would not cover it. Do i regret having it??? YES - I am the poster woman for DO NOT HAVE THE LAPBAND!!!!
Topic: RE: No hope Kansas?
Hi Liz,
My fiance is trying to have the lap band surgery. He has no insurance and has been turned down for loans. He has found mylapbandsurgery.com and we have gotten the financing for him to schedule the surgery. However, I am extremely skeptical because of the stereotype that mexico often has. I am really excited that he is going to be able to have the surgery for half of what it cost in the states, and I really want him to be around for our 25th wedding aniversary. But, the price seems almost too good to be true. What information did you find that reassured you about mylapbandsurgery.com? thanks so much for your help!!!
Ty
Topic: RE: Bad gallbladder update on St Francis
Hey you're back! How did everything go? How you feeling? How much did you lose on your pre-op diet? I was afraid you'd disappear like dream did. I'm trying to stay active on the boards but sometimes people especially on the RNY board can get kind of rude. I've had a wave of negativism wash over me lately so I've been trying to refrain until it passes. I'm not on pain meds today though so I'm not as grumpy as I've been for the last 4 days. I hate 'em. How did the rest of your pre-op diet go? I sent you a message of encouragement hope you got it. Right now I've got to go. My lawn needs mowed and I'm definitely not up to bouncing around on a mower. I'm taking bids from the kids. Glad you're back!
Topic: RE: Bad gallbladder update on St Francis
Apology accepted. Sometimes I get kind of touchy I guess. As far as the medical field goes, I'm not trying to scream the aliens are coming or anything like that. It's just how people on these boards and everywhere really say how doctors are miracle workers sent by God ect... The truth is that they are far from it. It's not just insurance companies either. Do you know who makes the decisions about what is a fair price that insurers should pay? Doctors. A board of doctors. Do the employees at your place of work decide what their pay is? Congress passed a law years ago that says that if you show up in an ER dieing, the doctors there must help you whether you can pay or not. That's because doctors were throwing dieing patients out the door because they had no insurance and couldn't pay. People who have Medicare are finding it harder and harder to get medical help because doctors and hospitals can make more money treating patients with private insurance. The medical field, hospitals and doctors alike are a business. Just like AT&T. They aren't concerned for you they're concerned about the bottom line. Sometimes it's cheaper to settle a few law suits for people that were harmed then it is to pay to do it right for everybody. I just think people should see this and protect themselves. I'm not trying to be a fanatic here. I just don't want people to be hurt by a system that legally allows it.
Topic: Kansas Men of ObesityHelp?
Hey there Guys!
Sorry that this is sort of a "Broadcast Message"
For all of the Men out on the Obesity Help Boards
But I just wanted to drop by an Invitation.
It's great to see other men out here.
We make up such a small percentage (12%)
Of the people having Weight Loss Surgery,
But tend to reach our goal weights quicker and with less
Or at least Different hassles than the Gals
Due to Male physiology.
Drop by the Men's Message Board
And check out what other men like you are going through.
It's been there for just over a year,
But every week we have another few men show up with the usual-
"So This Is where the Guys are! I thought I was alone!"
It's a diverse make up of Dads, Singles, Older, younger, etc...
Pre-Ops, Post-Ops new and some Old (at Goal) Post-Ops.
Lap-Banders, RNY'ers, DS, VSG's etc...
Great bunch of guys with the mutual understanding
That WLS - for Men - can be a totally Different Journey.
Stop by to add your questions, advice, opinions, and info at-
http://www.obesityhelp.com/forums/men/
It's Great to know we're not so alone,
And that there are others pulling for you.
Hope to see you 'Round the Boards!
Best Wishes-
Dx
Topic: RE: Bad gallbladder update on St Francis
I am sorry you thought I was being condesending. That is not how I was coming across. So, I apologize if you felt that I was. I had my gall bladder out and I was home within hours as well. Whom I was talking about "they" was the hospital staff. I know how you feel about the insurance companies. I have read your post on here from prior items. However, being in the medical field, I can tell you that if you did not meet requirements to go home, "they" the hospital staff would not have sent you home. A patient has to meet certain requirements before the staff can release you. If you meet the requirements then yes the staff sends you home because of the insurance companies. I don't believe that everyone should be sent home the same day, but it is happening more often then not. I work in a field that you would not believe some of the patients we have to send home. I understand totally what you are saying. It is not right and it is certainly unfair. But we don't have the control. The insurance has that control and it is not just an insurance issue, it is also a governmental issue as well. I can tell you stories about insurance and the crap that they pull. So I know and understand what you are saying. I do understand.
My husband had his eye removed a few years ago. The whole eye was taken out and he was sent home the same day. I work in an office where some of the patients we deal with have neck surgery and back surgery and some of the insurance companies make those surgeries out-patient. I know what you are saying and where you are coming from.
I am sorry that you took my words the wrong way. It was not meant like that.
I wish you luck and a speedy recovery....
Topic: RE: Bad gallbladder update on St Francis
I'm not sure what to make of your reply but I'm leaning towards condescending. I am aware of what type of surgery I had and the alternative. Laparoscopic surgery is a great thing reducing ones recovery time to a mere fraction of what it other wise would've been. The point was the quick discharge time. Sending someone home less than 6 hours after a major surgery defies common sense no matter how well the patient might seem to be doing. When something doesn't make sense then there is only one thing to do to figure it out. Follow the money. I'm certain by your statement that you're not aware of who "they" are. "They" are the insurance company. "they" decided that staying over night in a hospital is expensive so "they" will not pay for it. It's not what's best for you, it's what's best for "they" I don't like being in the hospital any more than they like paying for it. I'd much rather be laying in my own bed with my wife. But I have me in mind.