thank you for your responses about a dr but......

i found one, i ended up calling tallgrass and just flat out asking who they would refer me to that is not against the WLS cause I am not in the mood to fight with a dr over this.....I called St francis group and got a primary care dr and she is aware of what I am looking for and what I want to do.  I have thought of this for years and I just had my last son and my tubes tied so no more kids for me now I am ready to be young and healthy I am sick of being over weight.......I am going to introduce myself, I am Theresa, 29yrs old, 5ft,3in and weigh 235lbs not that bad some say but to me it is alot on my frame and it is wearing me down and holding me back.  I have tried every diet there is and worked out as well, and it stays on me I can lose 20 only to gain 30......I have four beautiful children ages from 10yrs to 5months old,,,,,,I look forward to getting to know everyone while I take this leap of faith in this journey I am beginning......have a wonderful day.

How exciting that you are starting on your journey!! It is so worth it in the end.

Sounds like you are off to a great start!  You are in good hands at Tallgrass.  I have had a very positive experience with them so far.  Good luck!