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Topic: RE: surgery went very well
Pam,
Congrats on your progress. Keep up the good work and stay focused. The light is at the end of the tnnel.
Christy
Congrats on your progress. Keep up the good work and stay focused. The light is at the end of the tnnel.
Christy
Topic: RE: It's been forever and I am losing the battle....
Of course you can do it. You made the decision to have the surgery that has given you a tool to help keep you motivated. It is extremely difficult to lose the come back pounds. But I know you ladies can do it, Just take one day at a time. Sometimes it requires you to do only 1 hour at a time. Just stop and think before you take that bite of whatever you have in your hand. Am I really hungry or am I eating for """Just because""" That seems to be my problem I eat for Just because I can. I am maintaining my weight though. I told my DH the other day if I didn't exercise like an exercise addict I would put it back on in no time at all. But I don't want to do that, I didn't have the surgery to be that big glob that had a hard time moving from place to place waddling around like a duck. So some days I struggle more than others. No one said it was the easy road even though most of the general public thinks that it is and we will never regain our weight. Boy are they wrong. We can regain our weight and it is not the easy way out. Each person still has to be accountable for what goes into their mouth. As one of the spin instructors keeps telling us """ It is a mind over matter, you can do anything your mind tells you to do"""" Of course she is talking about going the extra distance and pushing harder and working through the aching muscles while spinning. Her theory is that your body will only do what your mind tells it to do. I would like both of you ladies to post your progress in a week after you put your mind to it. I know you can do it!!!!
Topic: RE: It's been forever and I am losing the battle....
Tonight was the first time I have been on here in ages as well. I had my RNY in 2005 and I am up 35 pounds. Im strugglin too, but have finally decided I am gonna do this,,one pound at a time. We still are not at our presurgery weight, so we are still a success.
My first plan of attack,,is to write down everything that goes in my mouth,,drink the water,,and take the vitamins..things I have stopped doing long ago. So,,this is day one of my new success.
This is the hardest time of the year to lose too..all the goodies are everywhere. I love the cookies and the candy and the egg nog and the flavored coffee creamers and the specialty flavor ice creams...ugh! But I loved the feeling of being thin more,,and all thepretty clothes that are in my closet that I cannot wear. So, I made the choice..and chose what is most important to me.
Hope you can get yourself motivated...that is the hardest part. I can get motivated, its STAYING motivated thats hard!
Cmon,,we can do this,,one pound,,one day,,one moment at a time!!
My first plan of attack,,is to write down everything that goes in my mouth,,drink the water,,and take the vitamins..things I have stopped doing long ago. So,,this is day one of my new success.
This is the hardest time of the year to lose too..all the goodies are everywhere. I love the cookies and the candy and the egg nog and the flavored coffee creamers and the specialty flavor ice creams...ugh! But I loved the feeling of being thin more,,and all thepretty clothes that are in my closet that I cannot wear. So, I made the choice..and chose what is most important to me.
Hope you can get yourself motivated...that is the hardest part. I can get motivated, its STAYING motivated thats hard!
Cmon,,we can do this,,one pound,,one day,,one moment at a time!!
"For I know the plans I have for you ," declares the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11


Topic: RE: clothing exchange - gathering
I would love to come to one. I am new to this forum. I usually hang out on the RNY forum. I am booked until January. I have some size 18 and 16 to get rid of.
Christy
Christy
Topic: RE: clothing exchange - gathering
Hey Terry! How are you doing? If you have an 14s you don't want I'd be interested - send me a message!
Topic: RE: clothing exchange - gathering
Well every weekend in December is booked for me. But I'd be interested if I didn't have to drive too very far. :) Maybe some time in January?
Topic: It's been forever and I am losing the battle....
Hello... It's been forever since I have been on OH. I had surgery 10/08, lost 80lb... and got pg at 5 mos.... I now have a beautiful girl that is almost 1 and don't regret it a bit.
However, I am really struggling with the weight. I am 30lbs heavier than my pre pregnancy weight and only 50 lbs less than my surgery weight.
I just can't seem to get it all together and I don't want to lose this battle....
Experience, encouraging words, a swift kick in the head... it's all welcome.
I just need to find my way back and getting on here is a start.. I hope
However, I am really struggling with the weight. I am 30lbs heavier than my pre pregnancy weight and only 50 lbs less than my surgery weight.
I just can't seem to get it all together and I don't want to lose this battle....
Experience, encouraging words, a swift kick in the head... it's all welcome.
I just need to find my way back and getting on here is a start.. I hope
Mommy to a wonderful 4 yr old boy born 10/5/06 pre-op
and a beautiful little girl born 12/11/09 post-op
and a beautiful little girl born 12/11/09 post-op
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Please treat others the way you would like to be treated. There is nothing wrong with harmless adult flirting and being silly, but always remember (We are Classy not Trashy Adults).
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We are a friendly weight loss support chat room, and fourm for members to post on as well .
We offer weekly WLS recipes, we have links to help you find thing you may need to find before and after surgery. We also have a chat room that you can use to get to know others for support and just finding friends.
Our forum is here for anyone to post on and ask question, post answers, and really anything you like as a member.
Please treat others the way you would like to be treated. There is nothing wrong with harmless adult flirting and being silly, but always remember (We are Classy not Trashy Adults).
Have fun and enjoy yourself! I hope you find this place as a second home filled with a great OH family!
SO IF YOUR MEAN, RUDE, OR NASTY DO NOT JOIN THIS SITE! IF YOU ARE CAUSING DRAMA, NOT FOLLOWING THE RULES POSTED BELOW, OR YOU ARE CYBER BULLYING OTHER MEMBERS YOU WILL BE SUBJECT TO BEING BANNED BY ONE OF OUR ROOM MODERATORS!
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Topic: RE: surgery went very well
Hi Debbie,
Thanks for the encouragement. Wow you have kept off 158 for 7 years. That is quite an accomplishment. I have 2 sisters who had the surgery 7 and 10 years ago and both are gaining back their weight. You must be doing everything right. Congratulations. Pam
Thanks for the encouragement. Wow you have kept off 158 for 7 years. That is quite an accomplishment. I have 2 sisters who had the surgery 7 and 10 years ago and both are gaining back their weight. You must be doing everything right. Congratulations. Pam
Topic: RE: surgery went very well
Hello Pam,
Glad things went well. Now you are the losing side. I am coming up on my 7 years. Have losted 158 pound and few great. This is the best thing I every have done for myself. Enjoy life and everything it offers you. Debbie
Glad things went well. Now you are the losing side. I am coming up on my 7 years. Have losted 158 pound and few great. This is the best thing I every have done for myself. Enjoy life and everything it offers you. Debbie