sorry

Sorry guys i posted before i thought about it and i decided that it would hurt someone so i deleted it.....
lo ve ya all

Thank You!!!!!! I dont know what it was about but you were right... if ya cant say anything nice dont sayit at all..

Sometimes my foot gets in my mouth and I push the send button and dont know how to unsend... you cant take back a dart once it has been thrown!!

YOU are a Sweetie!!

Linda Kay

I read it before it was deleted and it wasn't bad.  I do understand why you deleted it though and it's very considerate of you.  I'm sorry you're going through such a hard time.  I wish i had something encouraging to say for you to use on your kids.  Just trust the Holy Spirit and let him heal all the hurt. 

I love you Sweetie!
Jacqui

I didn't read it....but now I wonder what it said?!  I think sometimes you have to say things that  might hurt people.  And other times it's okay to delete.  Just make sure that you don't hold back too much.  I'm a very direct person and find that a lot of t imes it's just easier to get it out there!
I do try not to say things that are mean for no reason other then to VENT.  Although, sometimes I am not good at censoring.    I hope you get whatever it was worked out!

I didn't see the post, but it sounds as though you are going through a painful period.  Life can be full of them.  You and your family are in my prayers.
Remember, We all love you.

I didn't read it either but, from what I have known of you here Lisa, there aren't many kinder than you. I was always such a pushover as a young person. I was always afraid of hurting someones feelings. I was concerned about what people thought of me and it hurt me when someone didn't like me. I couldn't understand why because I tried so hard to see both sides of things and to walk that middle ground. Then when I had children I learned how to stand up for myself by way of standing up for them. I still walk the middle ground on most roads and still try not to step on feelings but, one thing I have learned is that I can't please everyone and that's ok. I like to use the 3 C's when describing people these days... they are not compassionate, caring or considerate enough these days and that hurts us all. Especially our children in their relationship. But, in our days we were taught to be nice and kids aren't really taught that these days. So, I try my best to do my best and that's all I can do.
My motto now is, if you have something bad to say about me... say it behind my back because I don't care to hear it and besides, I've probably heard it before. LOL
It's ok Lisa, you are loved back. That is why I love being a part of this community of friends, family and acquaintences.
(((HUGS))) to you!!

hugs to the hurt......