It's not going to be okay.

Dear Linda I am from the PA forum you don't know me, but I just wanted to say how very sorry I am to hear your story. I can't even imagine the pain your family is enduring right now. I will be praying for you and your family. Any words I could offer sound so empty and hollow just know that you have many more friends than you realize praying for you. All my love and prayers.

Linda, I live in Boston, but I found out about your post on the PA forum.  I am so terribly, terribly sorry.  I'm sure nothing I can say or do can ease your pain (especially since we have never met before), but I want you to know I am thinking of you and your family.  Please don't blame yourself or think it should have been you -- for whatever reason, your life was spared and this world definitely needs you.  I'm sure that Maggie can feel your everlasting love and will be looking down on you from this day forward. 

Thinking of you from Boston and offering my deepest sympathy, 
Lisa