Still Around

Ok here goes nothing....I know I have fallen of the board/radar for a while but so much has happened.

where to begin....My husband and I are getting a divorce I found out the day after I got out of the hospital from getting a tear from my scope that he was messing around with my 16 year old dughters best friend.  I am going to be relocating to Georgia in a few weeks.  I am down 70 pounds and 2 pounds away from entering one-der-land....And I will be three months out on v-day...  I have dropped down to a size 16 which are even still a little big and can wear an xl in shirts.....  What a wonderful feeling let me tell you....Well I am sure you guys know.  It is amazing to have people do double takes of you when you are walking in the mall or something like that....

Again sorry I have not been here and hope everyone is doing good.....

Michelle

Well from one Michelle to another, he is obviously an idiot.  LOL  I am assuming your daughters best friend is under 18??  Doesn't he watch Dateline???  You have done an awesome job on keeping the focus on you.  You have done a great job.  70lbs is awesome!!  Enjoy your time in GA.  Keep up the good work!

Sorry to hear about your marriage trouble...been there, done that, and I know it ain't no fun. I'll be thinking of you as you go through this.

But...you're doing great with your weight loss! Keep up the good work, and think positive thoughts!

Jenny

Michelle - Congrats on your weight loss!!  Don't panic if you sit at the 2 lbs away mark for a couple of weeks before you drop it - I sat there for 3 weeks before falling into onederland!

As for your husband, I feel your pain!  As someone on her way to divorce I KNOW what you are going through.  Here's the HARD part - your profile says you have children.  You have to TAKE care of YOU so you can take care of him.  I can only imagine how sick/disgusted you feel about the fact he a cheater...but once a cheater always a cheater.  Unfortunately you are finding out the hard way.  My heart aches for you!  On top of it all you'll have to eventually find a way to be "friends" with him so the kids are torn apart.  My heart aches for you!

Please let us know if we can help you with any of this!!  You can send me a message anytime day or night, even if you want to VENT - girl I've done my share of venting about my soon to be ex as well!

Hugs to you and the kids!!
Frankie

Sweetie
Im so sorry about your marriage
But wonna say congrats on your weight loss ,you are doing wonderful.
I agree with one of the others i hope she is over 18.
But even though its hard hang in there sweetheart and vent here whenever you need to.
Huggs

Michelle,

I am so sorry to read this. Why are some men such idiots? I can imagine how this has affected your daughter. I really don't blame you for wanting to get out of the area. I wish you and your kids well. As to your soon-to-be-ex...life has a way of getting even for us. Just be patient..he'll get his and you won't have to lift a finger to cause it.

Sherri

  So sorry to hear about your marriage.  I also hope that she is AT LEAST 18.....but still think it is icky.  Please make sure her parents know so that she may be protected.  Even at 18 young girls are not prepared to have a relations with a grown men.

  I think it is amazing that you have done so well given the situation!  Good job!  Hope the relocation helps!

Michelle,

 

Im so sorry to hear about your marriage problems during this time of change with your wt.  Thats way to much stress at once.  I feel for you and you kids.  I will keep u in my thoughts and prayers.  Please whatever u do take care of youself and get in your protein and take your vitamins.  

Well first I want to say thank you to each and every one of you and to answer the crazy question.....she is 16 and it is legal in Indiana......The police put it to me like this if my 16 year old wanted to have sexual relations with a 60 year old man there is nothing I could do.....disgusting right....

I am focused on me and the kids no longer on what he has done to us because i do believe what goes around does come around...... hehehehe.....

I certainly hope that you and the kids can find happiness in your new start.  I am sorry that any family has to go thru this.  I have been there, done that, got the T shirt and sold it in a rummage!

I am so impressed with your progress.  Just keep it up and in the process of making all these changes, you will have a whole new you! 

Take care and you will be inmy prayers.

Huge hugs,
Tracy