Why do they wonna change him

I am a teacher.  I would never presume to diagnose a child.  I have documented behaviors I have observed.  What you are talking about is a medical diagnosis.  No one without a medical degree should be diagnosing.  I have said if my child were showing these behaviors, I would be discussing it with my child's physician.  You are your son's advocate.  Hang in there.  And stand up for what you know is best for your son.

Carol