Please pray that DH doesn't kill me ... :( Need some support.

Oh , Please pray DH doesn't kill me. I side swiped a pole and it's really bad it covers the whole drivers passenger door to the gas tank. :( Theres nooo dent or anything but DH is going to kill me we have a white stripe going all the way back. :( It's just another part of my bad day. I had gotten woke up by the phone by the cancer center telling me to come in and get my iron infusion today because the weathers supposed to be bad tomorrow, I was unprepared for this and didn't get my tylenol in in enough time really I have to take some a few hours before and then right before to fight off the achiness I get from the iron. Then go to my PCP to get refills on my psych meds because I can't get in to see a psych til whenever. He ended up making me get the tetanus booster/Dtap shot and my arm is already sore already. Ummm I don't even know what else to say. I just wanna cry. I woke up hypomanic as it is, I teared up more times than once at the cancer center for no reason or while I was journaling. I had to show my PCP my cuts and stuff and that was embarrassing. Oh yea my lungs still sound like junk so I had to call my allergist/asthma doc's office and go through the long song and dance because hes pushing for me to get a psych eval and stuff too and to tell them I need a refill on the steroids that I was looking forward to finishing up tomorrow. I'm just a mess. I don't know what to do. I don't know how I'm gonna tell DH bout the car he is going to KILL me.

No he won't kill you.  The weather has not been good, and you aren't feeling well.  Sounds good to me.  It's ok honey - just be truthful with him.  Check in with us later if you can.  Take a deep breath, take your meds, and relax.  It is just a possession.  He'll probably be glad that you weren't hurt in any way.   

Thanks, I feel like utter crap as it is. :( Sooo I don't know. I'm gonna tell him if he calls from work so that he can maybe calm down by time he gets home.

That's a good idea Misty.  By the time he gets home and sees the damage isn't as bad as he has pictured it in his mind to be, he'll be calm.  He loves you and will be glad that you're ok and weren't hurt. 

Hugs, honey!!

Misty, 

I hope all went well and you are at your support meeting tonight.

Thanks hon!!

I'm still alive!! YAY.. heh he took it better than expected BUT he hasn't gone out to look at it yet either. I think he will still be mad after he does, it's big.

I knew he would not kill you!!  YAY!!!   Glad he took it well.

Misty:

I had a really bad accident once and I kept telling the police officer "My husband is going to kill me" over and over and over.  He lightened the mood really quick by stating "He can't!   It's illegal in Indiana to murder someone!"     So keep that in mind!  

Everyone has bad days.  Some are worse than others and some are better than others.  YOU have to choose to have the "some are better than others" no matter what life deals  you! 

Keep your chin up!

Blessings,

Lois :)

 

I'm sorry you're having a rough day, hon! I hope it was okay after he saw it. You can only do the best you can do. Just keep your chin up.