My Perfect Guy!! Votes in

OK, so not having a guy in my life for a while, I might/maybe be ready to start dating. Asking my OH family who/what they felt I would be interested in.
Most of you said it will happen when I least expected it.
Ms Shanna, I liked your {Gail Perfect Man} qualities the best. Caring,Supportive,Loving, Kissable ( I like that one),Brave, Honorable, strong, Tall & Handsome.She suggested men like Harrison Ford,Robert Redford or Robert Deniro.WOW, I would be lucky just to get a someone like that. But, there's always a BUT !!!!  I would have to have passion, and a guy that I would take care of and he would take care of me. A guy that would kiss my forehead when he thinks I am a sleep.A guy that's tears I could wipe,he's real. Also, I need a guy younger than me,still likes music loud and sings in or out of tune.Most of all loves me for me.
And yes dance with me in my RED HIGH HEELS.
I know he only lives in my dreams. Perfect no,there is no perfect. But as Maroon 5 sings "She Will Be Loved" that's all I want. God willing. Thanks for listening, I love you all.
Hugs & Prayers Gail
and if you are blessed enough to have that someone kiss them on the forehead when they are asleep.

 will come along when you least expect it or don't want it! Just don't try too hard to find you perfect man, let him find you. You know you are worth only the best man out there! Michelle

Sweety- it never hurts to DREAM~ I DO hope you meet someone that fulfills atleast 3/4 of yours!! In this world there are some rare jewels out there like you- the guy who gets to have you in his life would be one lucky one!!!!

Gail
sweetie youll find your true love when your not looking for him.
Usually it is someone who we wouldnt expect..
My guy i was looking for was long haired and tatooed with facial hair and drove a harley..(didnt happen).
I got a clean cut soldier boy whom is the love of my life..
I tell everybody i was lookin for a hells angel and found an altar boy..lol
You will find him or he will find you.But he better be good to you or look at all of us he has to deal  with.lol
Good luck sweetie

My perfect man came to me through a blind date!  Never give up!  My son met his mate last year through e-harmony and married in April in Hawaii.  Never give up!  He had and thought he would be considered "desperate" to go through e-harmony!  But they were meant for each other.   Don't settle.  You are worth your dreams and God DOES have someone in mind for you.  He's out there and you two will find each other!

Awe honey, I know you went 20+ years without even caring if Mr. Maybe came along. Now that you are starting to think of how good it would be to find him, I just KNOW that Mr. Right-for-You is right around the corner!

Sherri

Gail Sweetie, I'm telling you right now there isn't a man out there that's good enough for you.  That being said, I do believe you'll find love.  You are just too loving not to have a special someone in your life.  I had pretty much decided to be single my whole life.  My sister and I always joked that we were going to be those two sisters on the Waltons!  I can't remember their names but they had the "secret recipe".  Anyway, as soon as we stopped looking we both found the men of our dreams.  Troy is more than I ever thought I'd have and so much more than I deserve.  I am truly blessed.....and I know you will be too!

Just don't kiss too many toads before you find your prince!

Love you so much my dear.

Smooches,
Jacqui

Gail,

I hope you do find the man of your dreams, or actually that he finds you.   I read an email to the effect that a woman should be so hidden in the heart of God that a man has to seek God to find her.  That's what I'm hoping for you, that a good and Godly man will find his way in to your life to love you unconditionally, wholly, and fulfill all your heart's desires.

Julie

Gail, I didn't respond to the thread for your perfect man. I figure that if you choose him he has to be pretty close to perfect. I know that he is out there and like everyone said, you will find each other when you least expect it. It seems like when you adjust your thinking to being alone is when God sees fit to bring him to you. That is what He did for me. I think He does that so we know that we can do for ourselves and don't need someone to make us whole. So that we know that we are an alright person who is complete on our own and that someone doesn't have to make us complete.

I met Bill through a meeting from a mutual friend. I told her that I would meet him but it was for friendship only. Like dinner and movies and such. When he was walking up the sidewalk I heard him tell his cousin that I was beautiful. I thought right there that he must be blind. But beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and it isn't always outer beauty but the inner beauty is what counts. Someone who is good, kind, loving and most of all someone who loves God. Bill and I spent a lot of time together and we were married within a week of meeting. No one thought that it would last but this last June we celebrated our 20th anniversary. Things may not be perfect but then again neither one of us is either. We just know that when we married it for life this time since another divorce for either one of us is not an option. I am not saying that our marriage is perfect but I can look at him and say that he is a good man (with his faults, but who doesn't have faults?) and I know that the 9 months I was almost dead he stood by me and even when there was nothing he could do for me he would sit next to me and put cold cloths on the back of my neck when I would sit on the side of the bed and rock and just beg God to "let me die". He stuck by my side and he still does. He stood by me when the heart doctor told me that I would be dead in a year. He took care of me when I couldn't do anything for myself. He is the father of my 3 children and they would have done good to be just like their father had they had the chance to live on this earth. He is that father of my children that every Mother's Day gets me a card and signs his and our children's names to it and tells me that I would have been a wonderful mom if I had the chance. I am blessed by God to have sent me the man that he did. I only wish the same for you, my little earth angel.

I am sending all my love and prayers to you, Gail. Thanks for just being you~the you that we all love so much.