Missin' my baby!!

Well, I have bad news. It will be 3 weeks on Tuesday that I lost the baby. It kills me every time I think about it and it hurts so bad. It was a boy, which is what I wanted so bad. We named him Jayden David and he weighed 4 ozs. Everyone please pray for us the is the hardest thing that I ave ever had to go through.

I am so sorry about your loss. I know first hand just what you are feeling. I lost 3 babies and I grieve for them every day. I know that someday I will be with them and get ot hold them and mother them. I am just waiting for that day. I know that some day you too will get to do that. Please pm me any time that you want to talk. I am more than willing to help when ever you need me. If you need to talk to me I will pm you with my phone number. Just in case you have to pay for long distance I have free long distance on my home phone so I would be more than glad to call you or to call you back. I found a lot of help through Compassionate Friends which is a group for bereaved parents, grand parents and siblings. They helped me so much. I am not as active in it now but I do at times still get calls from the parents and I so enjoy helping them. If you are interested in attending a meeting (they do not care how old the child was~we all have dreams for our children from the moment that we find out that they are on the way) so don't feel that will have any impact on them at all. It won't. If you aren't able to find a meeting around you just let me know if you would like to go to one and I can get the information from someone around here on the meeting and possibly a phone number for someone from the meeting. Please know that I feel your pain and know that it does get better. It never goes away but we learn how to deal with it. I always say that we have been dealt a terrible hand in this life and we just have to learn how to live with it. It isn't always easy but we do learn how to do it. I am sending love and big healing hugs from one bereaved parent to another.

Oh my, I am so sorry. I did not know. I do however know what you are going through. I miscarried when Tyler was 4. I went into a very deep depression. So please make sure you seek out someone to talk to. I went into therapy. God has a plan for you. I know now you probably don't want to hear that. I feel that if I would have had the baby, I would have never had Bella. (9 years later)
Good luck to you and again I am so sorry!  Best wishes. SHanna

I remember losing my daughter Lucy in 1999. Anniversaries, dates , that remind us of the loss are especially hard. I hope you get through this okay. The anticpation of the day, is usually worse than the actual day, in my experience. I remember going on anniversaries, and leaving pink roses in the ER of  the hospital where my baby died.

I am so sorry for your loss.  I did not know you were expecting.
I cannot relate because it has never happened to me so I will not say I understand. Just know that I am thinking about you and keeping you in my prayers.

Oh hon, I am so sorry to hear this news.  I understand the loss.  I had two miscarriages before I was able to have Mariah and Molly.  I looked at my daughters as God giving me back my children that I had lost before.  I pray that you and your family will get thru this time of trials.  It is so hard.  God Bless you all.

Kristina,

I am so very sorry to hear this. I didn't know. Many hugs and prayers for you and your family. My heart is grieving with yours.

huggggggs
Janene

(( HUG )) I'm so sorry for your loss. As many others have stated, I unfortunately know your pain. I am praying for you and your family. Please take it easy on yourself. (( HUG ))

I am so sorry for you loss.  I lost my first son after having two daughters.  It is a pain that no one can take away except God.  I will pray for you.  Please know that you are not alone in this.  Your son will be in your heart always and that can never be taken from you.  Your friends here will get you through it.

I got a special necklace for my baby, Adam William, to keep him close to me always.  On days that are hard for me, I wear the necklace.  It helps.

Remember we are always here for you.

take care, Tracy