This touched my heart-had to share...
'Don't forget your Sisters'
A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her Mother.
As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter.
'Don't forget your Sisters', she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. 'They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need Sisters.
Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them. Remember that 'Sisters' mean ALL the women...your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other women relatives too. 'You'll need other women. Women always do'.
What a funny piece of advice the young woman thought. 'Haven't I just gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married woman, for goodness sake! A grown-up! Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!'
But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact with her Sisters and made more women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, Sisters are the mainstays of her life. After more than 50 years of living in this world, here is what I've learned:
Time passes. Life happens. Distance separates. Children grow up. Jobs come and go. Love waxes and wanes. Men don't do what they're supposed to do. Hearts break. Parents die. Colleagues forget favors.
BUT.........Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you. A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach. When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end.
Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you...Or come in and carry you out. Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, Auntie's, nieces, cousins, and extended family, all bless our life! The world wouldn't be the same without women, and neither would I.
When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other. Every day, we need each other still.
Short and very sweet:
There are more than twenty angels in this world. Ten are peacefully sleeping on clouds. Nine are playing. And one is reading these words at this moment.
Thank you so much for the great post. I think it's just what I needed today! It's been a difficult week already (and it's only Tuesday...UGH!) Thankfully I was able to find a group meeting to go to tonight...Slowly I am getting on the path to taking care of my own needs. Looking forward to getting to know more sisters/friends from the site.
Christina
Thank you. This summed up very well how I feel about my sisters on this board. Not to leave the guys out though. Floyd is definately like a brother to me. Scott's my little brother and Emil was like my wiser, older brother. Each, male and female, holds a special place in my heart.
I have 2 sisters and 1 brother (plus I had a sister who passed away back in '90). I had never been close to them at all and I don't speak or associate with any of them now (haven't for a few years). Life is much simpler this way. Ellen kinda adopted me as her little sister and has treated me as my own older sister never did...with love. That has meant so much to me. As I get to know more & more people on here, I am struck by how much our childhoods were so similar. Many of us were middle children. Many of us were teased & ridiculed for our weight from our family members...the very members who were suppose to be there for us (for me, even my mother got into the act!). Funny, but these same family members would also be the first to declare that they have a close, tight-knit family! For us though...the overweight, chubby child, we were often the outcast. Here on OH and here on the Indiana board, we finally feel 'at home'!
Much love to my OH family...
Sherri
AT GOAL!!
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Never allow someone to be your Priority while allowing yourself to be their Option......
Whenever God Closes One Door He Always Opens Another, Even Though Sometimes It's Hell in the Hallway...
I LOVE the fact that God has given me a 'family" here! being the FIRST BORN---I had ALOT of responsibility growing up the oldest of 5, (1 boy in the mix) and learned at a young age to nuture others- sometimes to the detrement of myslef/them! it has taken me years to learn where my boundries lie, and how to truly love myslef/others. I still mess up, but have learned to grow from it, many times thru you!
YOU have loved me thru so much- and I have learned/am learning from you how to nuture myslef. For years it was with food; now it is with fellowship with others, relaxing,sharing/ laughing, enjoying life with my "family"& friends. I feel even though I don't know some of you very well, we share a common bond that distance, time, and age can't erase. I am going to be 60 this Oct. but still feel like I am a youngster with all of you!!! I LOVE YOU MORE!
Ellen
starting wgt. 271#/178/ goal-155#

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I am so glad this touched so many as it touched me. I have found new friends here on the Indiana OH board. We share a common bond on which to start friendships, but have found other things in common also. I so agree that there are "brothers" out there also that should be included as I have some friends that are male that have been through WLS that I have learned quite a bit from.
Thanks all...