2nd Denial...HELP

Why is this happening?? My second denial came in today 2-14-06. Because I am not compling with the program. They said I was eating sweets & not excercising. In the past 2 weeks I have cut down a lot on sweets (donuts for breakfast) & started back at Curves & even bought some exercise equipment. They still said NO.. Now every chance I see Chocolate or sweets I'm eating them. I know I'm just emotional & turning to sweets for comfort. HELLO -- this is why I need the surgery because I eat for comfort.. Now what do I do??? I'm upset & husband is upset... How do I continue to have patience with all of this. Someone HELP???? Kristi ( Going Crazy )

LOL....#1 we ALL know how hard it is to comply with a stupid diet So we all feel your pain #2....when ya cheat....DON'T TELL!!!! Those people do not understand that if it was as easy as telling us NOT to eat bad things we wouldn't NEED the surgery!!!! #3....get back on the program and next time....tell them you are eating all the right foods And in the meantime...try to stick to healthier snacks (low fat-like 3 Muskateers, tootsie rolls, Snackwells, Klondike Thin Bears to satisfy the chocolate urge) and try eating pre-packaged healthy choice dinners to reduce portion sizes and fat content-even if you eat 2 healthy choice dinners...they are still very low in fat and sugars...if you do these things...you will loose some weight...or at least maintain. They want to know you can comply with a healthy diet-because the surgery (while wonderful and great) only works if you stick to the program-and if you go back to eating chocolate a year after surgery...then you will risk gaining your weight back...something to think about. Now don't give up and fight the good fight!!!!!

I agree with Deb.. Quit telling on yourself.. Hello... IF we could loose we wouldnt opt for surgery.. BUT Surgery is ONLY A TOOL.. just another pc of equipment helping us loose and maintain... If we dont use the tool or use it foolishly we will only regain and ruin everything we have worked for. we all know that.. Hey I can have some sugar... I dont dump.. but I am not going to bake me a cake an binge just because some of it wont be absorbed... I loose so much better knowing I havent put anything in there that I need to explain away... TRY again... THEY want to know how sincere and honest you plan on being and they arent wasting their hard earned money...(they keep the profits.. they sure dont return the overpayments to us) Linda