I have a male date

Hello everyone, I have a date with someone, I was trying to hold it off for at least 2 more month because this person didn't knew I had wls but I told him tonight on the phone. We meet on Platnum romance almost a 6 months ago. We just chated, a little and then things didn't work out to meet, mainly because of me, because I didn't want to go out, with as big as I was. I really wanted to wait tell I was around 150 but I am still at 187. He will just have to except it. I had to tell him because he wanted to go to Arnie to eat and I didn't think they had anything there I could eat. He saw a pic of my head shot not my body so he didn't know what the rest of me looked like. I will let everyone know what happens, He did ask if he took me out to dinner did that mean he would have to marry me and I told him I HOPE NOT I AM NOT LOOKING TO GET MARRIED. But I hope he dosen't think I am going to do the nasty with him either. I have done alot of soul searching of my self in the past 2 1/2 years and I have change and am not going back to my old ways. Now have to try to go find something that isn't to big and not to small to wear. Later... Lisa

Bravo well done And here is to many more dates in the future....you can be as picky as you like and pick only the best man who treats you perfect

well the jurk never called me today, I suppose it was becasue I was honest and told him just how much I weight and that I had wls. We were suppose to meet on Thurs too and he got tied up so I suppose this happend again. Well no more, he blow his chance. From now on if he send a message to me I am going to tell him I found someone else. He has been try to hook up for almost 5 months, but had to many things going on with his businesses . I told him then to let me know when he wasn't so busy, so he got in touch with me last week. So it must of been due to my weight . You what ever the reason is, he will not get any more chances with me. Sorry ladies no big date. Lisa

What a dweeb!!! Hold out for the nice ones...they are out there My Canadian is being very slow in coming around...so I have decided to start dating again too. Maybe he will get off the fence and smell the coffee In the meantime...I agree with Linda...dating is to meet new people and form some friendships and maybe the right one will come along and sweep us off our feet I think you are very lovely and you just need to wait for that one really sweet man who is going to be everything you want and deserve (well, almost everything anyhow...I don't think the perfect ones exists ) Kudos to you for standing up to your principles and tell that dweeb to take a hike Better yet...block his messages

Congrats.......and you be as picky as you want. Wait until you find the right man of your dreams!!!!! As Deb said....many more dates to come!!!!!

NO! You don't Have to do the nasty.. thats what DATES are for ... finding the ONE that you want to form a relationship with THEN do the nasty... and often!! (It burns calories) I am so happy for you!! You are coming out of yourself and making friends.. one more step closer to goals.. Linda

LOL, I know but men now days think if they take you out they are to get some. But they don't with me.... well most of the time. But that is why I kind of got tired of the the whole dating thing. Lisa

sounds like fun..get out and have some fun...shoot nope sure does not mean you have to bump uglies either....but it just might be fun to get out and about and mingle a little..