Help talking to husband

Thanks Jacqui!!  I'll pass the info on to him.  Unfortunately he can't come to the consult with me because he is going to be traveling for work.  But he has started reading the research I have sent to him.  Hopefully he'll talk to your hubby and he'll feel a little more secure. Thanks a ton!! Sam

I know this is going to sound sort of rude but I didn't care what my husband thought.  I did this for me and not him.  I told him what I was going to do and I started tht process.  I was 29 YO with 3 children under 4 and I was already dying with health problems in the 10 years we were married it was ridiculous on the medical problems.  I would look at my mom (who is very large) and see me that wasn't going to be me.  I don't think he knew that the outcome could've been bad until a couple of months after surgery he was looking through the notebook beside our computer that has all the user id 's and passwords for the different sites and he found a couple of letters I wrote "just in case".  It shook him up but like he said better to have done it before my health got worse and it was too late and I still had time on my side.   Tina