Good and Bad News

Hello everyone, I haven't been able to be on here as much as I would like. Some of you might know of my current situation, some not. To give a sum up, i've had to leave my house and i'm filing for divorce. that's the short end of it. anyways, i've been really depressed, stressed, and all the bad emotions that come with it. I've talked with Dr. Evanson's office about my stomach pain (stress related), and they've up'd my prevacid and said I could take pepcid at night, and still take my carafate.  still, i'm having to force myself to eat, and i'm in pain when I do; even if its just applesauce or jell-o. I try to eat mostly protein when i try to eat, because anything i put in hurts. so i know its hard enough going thru this divorce and all the drama that is tied in, but i'm not taking care of myself (surgery wise) either. i'm so close to having myself admitted to 86th st soo many times for just not thinking i can handle reality. should i call dr evanson's back and let them know? its hard just to get to work everyday. the only good thing is that i've lost 58 pounds. but my health is in jeopardy. any advice would be wonderful. thanks Amanda

It's really important that you do what you need to do to take care of yourself. You are important, and you are worth it. If you need some time in the hospital to work it out and get back on track, take it. There's no shame in it. I would call Dr. Evanson, and let them know what's going on, too.

I agree, but also talk to your PCP about the stress and depression.  There's only so much the Prevacid will do, if it's stress eating a hole in you, you need a different kind of help.  Perhaps counseling and an anti-depressant are in order?

thanks. i have talked with my pcp, and have anti-anxiety, and depression meds. I'm going to counseling and group mtg for domestic violence. i feel that i'm trying everywhere to hold on, but i'm slipping. My grip on the world is pretty loose. thank you though

I may be off the wall here and I dont mean to offend..although in my shoes.. I don't see how it could be an offense.. But have you tried God?? I will pray for you and if you could get to church there in Terre Haute.. I am sure you could get some support..And Help!! Taking care of YOU is #1!!! you have to eat right and take care of you! When you get stronger and can start standing on your own it will get sooo much better and honestly Protien and good food will help. One day that MAN will be the one hurting when he realizes what you have become a well proportioned, independant, diva who can hold her own in any situation!! Best of luck to you sweetie,,, may God surround you with his arms and keep you strong. Linda Kay

Amen to your suggestion.  He will comfort and help. God bless and our prayers will be offered for any situation a person on this forum is in.... E

Amanda, So good to hear from you.  I've been thinking about you.  Sorry to hear what you're going through, both emotionally and physically.  You need to take care of yourself.  Everything will get better in time.  You were such a joy to meet.  Please know that we are here for you.

Hugs,

Floyd

Amanda, I will keep you in my prayers as well... God can work miracles, sweet heart. Where we as humans think all hope is lost that is when He shines!!! Take care of you please... especially in this time... go to support group and if you feel like you need to go up to 86th street go up there sweetie with a smile on your face... Knowing you'll be the better for it and in the end NOTHING will stand in your way... God bless you!! ::Hugs::

hey```amanda glad to hear from you i been wondering about you-sorry you have to go through this while your recovering still from wls--but it will be ok just take 1 day at a time and remember if u need us were here! as for u checking in someplace maybe that will help you-and get you back to feeling ok-thinking of you always!