Sad Anniversary

Today is the anniversary of the day my daughter Lucy died in 1999. I am feeling kind of down the more I think about it, which I can't help, but thinking about it. She would be eight years old this year. I am going to try to think of positive things instead. *I got a really cute, short haircut yesterday, and have been shedding less since. *I go for my first horseback riding lesson tomorrow. *I have lost 75 pounds in four months. *I feel physically really well. *I have two great kids who are still with me, and a great husband. Linda Vicory

I'm really sorry you are feeling down. I hope you find some comfort today to help you feel better.

So sorry...so awful for a parent to lose a child no matter what age...There is no way NOT TO THINK ABOUT IT...and even though it was in 99 my step son was in 05 and i just believe the pain is always there, though maybe it dulls somewhat...Embrace the 2 you have...

Linda, Im really sorry that today is a bad day for you. However, introspection about where u were to where u are today can be very healthy. Just think about how proud your daughter must be that u have taken control of your life and that u are now a healthier person, a better more energetic parent to her brother and sister and that u are even a better wife now to her daddy. Just think this time last yr all the things u couldnt do, all the dreams that seemed so far away and physically crappy you felt. I bet your little angle is so proud of her mommy today!!! I hope u have a good day and an even better yr this year than last. Pamela ps good luck with your horse ridding lesson tomorrow

Lord Jesus, Wrap your arms around Linda today and hold her extra tight. Help her to feel your love and give her strength. And please let Lucy spend a little extra time sitting on Your lap today. I'm sure she misses her mommy too Linda, I'm crying right along with you today. Annette

Thanks for all the replies. It helps to know I have some people thinking about me today. Linda Vicory

i am so very sorry for your loss linda, no parent should ever have to deal with the death of a child, but like has been said she is watching you and sayin " thats my mommy looking good" she like everyone here is very proud of you . keep your eyes to the stars for every little twinkle is your darling little one winking at you . vicki

Linda, Please feel my hug I am sending your way. I think on anniversaries, such as yours, it is OK to be sad for a bit for what you have lost. I have twin girls in heaven as well and it is on anniversaries especially when I think of the "what ifs." But I am proud of you for being positive about your recent accomplishments and your blessings. Even with all of the "potholes", life is good. Peg

Oh my Linda. I can't even imagine how hard it is losing a child. My son is 21 and still living at home. I'm terrified of the day he moves out because he is insulin dependent diabetic and still has not come to grips with it and he doesn't take care of himself. I'm so afraid we'll find him some day in a coma. He's been in the hosp twice in insulin shock. It scares me. I've been wearing my hair shorter since it started falling out. I want to let it grow but since it has stopped falling out it has gotten curley. I've always had stick straight hair till now. Now it looks like I've had a perm. If it get to long it get bushey. What kind of riding lessons are you taking, English or western? I'm a horse nut and am fortunate to have my own in my back yard. I'll be glad when the weather improves and I can get out and start riding again. I have a saddlebred and just do english pleasure. I'd like to get a trail saddle and take him out on the trails. Have fun with your riding lesson. Is it a first for you? Giddy-up