Update

Well, I'm very sorry I missed the clothing exchange I was looking forward to seeing everyone, as well as getting rid of a lot of clothes ive had folded up, but hey, April is just around the corner, eh? As far as my dad goes, it looks like he'll be leaving soon. I'm honestly okay with that. I know his body is tired and he just needs to go. Obviously we dont know when this will happen, but the nurse told me tonight it prolly wont be much longer. He'll be buried in Kansas City so I'll be gone for a few days. I'm hope hope hope hoping that he'll hang on through the week. I should only be gone for 3 days, but I'm going to do everything i possibly can to make sure im here for saturday. But obviously I have to choose dad's funeral if i have to pick. So my apologies in advance if I cannot be here. I'll keep you guys posted day by day as to whats going on. I jsut wanted to let everyone know what was going on.

Darrah, I missed meeting you today! Sorry to hear about your Dad. It sounds like you've made peace with what's going on. Take care of yourself, and keep us posted. Linda Vicory

Hi Sweety, I sure missed you at the exchange, but know you needed to be with dad. I lost my parents 17 days apart, and am so glad I had that extra time with them each. It sounds like you are handling it very well. Remember we are all here to give you support and a shoulder to cry on. Hang in there , I'm sending prayers up for you all, (((((hugs))))) Ellen PS.I sent your things with Sherri, so get ahold of her if you need them sooner than the Shower. Oh, did you mean the Baby Shower on the 27th, -2 Saturdays from now. Don't go this coming Sat. or I won't be there! I am looking forward to seeing you & our "little baby" and all the fun!!!

Darrah, I'm sorry you're going through such a rough time when this is suppose to be one of your happiest times. I guess your dad just needs to be heaven to be your baby girl's guardian angel from the moment she arrives. I have about a bag and a half of things for you. I'll bring them on the 27th. As Ellen said, hon, the shower is not this Saturday coming up (the 20th), but the Saturday after that...on the 27th. I know you're anxious for your little one to come, but I don't think time works that way...lol. Hang in there sweetie. If/when your dad passes, please post his full name and the funeral arrangements (Funeral Home name & address). We may have not known him, but I think most of us feel like we are sisters/brothers, aunts/uncles, and Mom's/dad's (dare I say, Grandmothers/Grandfathers??) to you. Hugs, 'Aunt' Sherri

Darrah honey, I am sitting here with tears in my eyes remembering... No matter how prepared you are nothing prepares you for the loss of a parent. We have known daddy was leaving us for years and really wanted him to go for his sake, but the minute I heard it was final.. I thought I was going to melt.. It hurt so bad!! Please know I am praying for you during this rough time.. and that the Bible says I go to prepare a place for you for where I am you will be also.. If this were not true I would have told you so. (parphrased, not word for word) Take care of yourself. dont forget to eat and feed the little one. Linda

It's a simillar situation here, Linda. We've known for awhile that it was coming. im sure I'll feel differently when it happens. I was just telling DH last night, you can think you're ready for years, but you can never actually be ready. As far as Saturdays go, I'm just confused. I know it's the 27th for the shower, but for some reason I had thot that was next weekend. Brain is understandably a bit fried these days hehehe.

Darrah, Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you as well! You were definately missed at the exchange, but we all understand! Please make sure to take care of yourself and the little one, when things are tough, it can sometimes be forgotten,just a gentle reinder! If you need anything please let us know! We are all thinking of you! Hugz Dawn

God be with you and hold you in these times. Take care of you and your little one dear. Know that my heart keeps you in my prayers. I missed meeting you yesterday! Take care. Love in Jesus Jessyca

Darrah, It is never easy, but we know he will be out of pain and in a better place. I will be praying for you and your family. I'm so very sorry. Hugs, Beth

Your family is in my thoughts Darrah! I'll see you at the shower! Sam