I dont know what to do...

I'm so sorry you are going through this at this time. I lost my dad when he was only 42 yrs old. My Mother 3 yrs ago when she was 59. Both to cancer, its rough so hang in there and know you aren't alone God will see you through this. You might ask his nurses if they know anything other hospitals have social workers to help families with things like this maybe the VA does too. I'll be thinking of you and your family take care. Cheryl

Darrah, The toll free number for the Marion National Cemetary is 1-800-498-8792 ext. 73546. They can give you all the information you need. God Bless, Becky

I have no answers for you. Seems like there have been many good suggestions here. Just wanted to express my sympathy for the hard time you are having and to let you know that you, your family and father are in my prayers. We lost my father-in-law 9 years ago Dec 8 and I know how hard that hit me. I can't even imagine how hard this is for you now. PLease take care of yourself first. May God be with you. Jan

Oh Darrah, Darrah, Darrah.... This is to much for one little pregnant girl!!! I know things seem hopeless, but have faith. Things always work out. Make phone calls. Call the VA, and I would even call the Teamsters. I know this is a stressful and trying time, but please remember to take care of yourself and that precious baby you are carrying!! All you can do is your very best. Know that he and your mother will be reunited in heaven not KC!!

I am so sorry that you are having to go through this, my dad passed away October 17th so I know what you are going through because he was in a very ill condition also. You can also go to the Veteran's Administration website they have all the information about burial benefits. I'm not sure of the exact website but you can find it by doing a search. I know you will need his DD214 (discharge papers) but you can also search the The National Records Archives in St. Louis and they can send you a certified copy and I believe they do a rush on it if your father is terminally ill (my sister used to work for them.) Good luck and you and your family are in my prayers.

Darrah I am so sorry I haven't responded sooner! Everyone has given you great advice and I hope you can find the perfect choice. I just want you to know that your family is in my thoughts!! Sam