I'm new and getting nervous...

Hi! I'm new to posting, but have been lurking for a couple years. It took me a long time to make the decision to have surgery and I know it's the best thing for me. I just had my testing done on Monday and had my class yesterday. All I have to do now is psych myself up for my surgery on September 7th. I am excited, a little scared and now I'm getting nervous, which I think will only get worse as the day gets closer. Any advice to help me deal with this? I have a therapist helping, but thought asking all of you would give me a different perspective since you've all been there, or will be. Thanks! -Becka

they say it is normal to be nervous and scared.

Sorry Becca, Nerves are a good thing.. they keep us thinking.. Just know you have taken the first step for the best of your life!! Surgery is 100% easy. but I would do it again tommorrow. I have been fat for 30 years... I LOVE wearing a size 16 and being called skinny!!!! I can get down on the floor and play with my grandchildren and still breathe after running around the yard chaseing them!!! ( I have triplet 2 year old grandaughters who love to rujn 3 different ways!!) Be well and quick lurking !! Ask your questions and get into the fun of this crazy friend ship you will develop with some of these people!! Linda

Hey Becka, I know what you mean about being nervous, I am a little bit but I have fought so long and hard for this Im ready, It was so cool getting to meet different people including you at the testing Monday, I learned a lot of things from the couple I met there that had it done a couple years ago, they were so encouraging. I have my class on the 29th of August, I cant wait to get this all over with. good luck on the 7th. Regina

Thanks for your replies. I know it's normal to be nervous, I haven't had any moments that were strong enough to change my mind, I'm just trying to adjust my thinking. After going through my nutrition class at St Vincent's, it really started to sink in that this is really finally going to happen. I didn't go in blind, I know intellectually what is going to happen to me. I think things are starting to settle in emotionally. My husband and I had a minor fight last night and my first thought was "what can I eat?" my second was "I can't do that anymore". It scared me and made me sad. Eating has always been an emotional thing for me. Even though I could have eaten last night, I didn't. I have to start sometime and I think before the surgery is better than after. I'm sure I'll have some tough moments when the choice is no longer available to me, but I'm ready to deal with it, I think. I am in counseling and will continue to be, as long as it takes to adjust my lifestyle. I also think having this board and all the wonderful people on it is going to make things easier, too. I'll bet that almost anything I have to deal with after surgery has been experienced by someone here. Knowing that helps. Regina- It was nice to put a face with the name. I enjoyed talking to you in Carmel. THe intenet is nice, but in person is so much better. I look forward to meeting more of you at support meetings or other social events. Thanks again! -Becka