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My )18) son is considering moving back home with me, he now lives with his father. They are not getting along. my boyfriend says I should make him stay with his father. I dont want him running back and forth between us and never growing up. but I think he should know he is always welcome at home with me. Am I right or wrong. I never felt welcome at home and I had a terrible young adult life and I dont want my kids to feel that way. . I am having such confused feelings
I have my own home but I really dont want to leave my boyfriend over this. but i dont think he should make me choice between my kids and me. what should ido. He has two more years of school. And my boyfriends 24yr old son lives with us and he moves in and out all the time. I think bob is playing the double standard saying my son needs to grow up.
I have my own home but I really dont want to leave my boyfriend over this. but i dont think he should make me choice between my kids and me. what should ido. He has two more years of school. And my boyfriends 24yr old son lives with us and he moves in and out all the time. I think bob is playing the double standard saying my son needs to grow up. 
I think on one hand he's right on the other hand.. I would probably tell your son that he needs to work things out with this father.. be an adult and talk to him and see if they can come to an understanding... If he can't then the door is open.. that way he knows its time to act like an adult.. Do you have a good enough relationship with his father that you can talk to him and find out what the issue is? I know my middle son and ex are not talking right now.. I know what the issues are and they are both at fault.. makes it easier to know the whole picture too...
On the boyfriend... the next time his son moves out and wants to come back just gently remind of this...And NO MAN will ever make a woman choose between him and her kids if he truely loves her.and if he tries he's not worth being with.... just my opinion 
Good Luck
Good Luck 
Never let your son feel your boyfriend gets a say... Tell him he is always welcome with you that you love him but first he needs talk with his dad and get that worked out first then if he still wants to move back I would let him... also that is a double standard and if his son can live there why is it a big deal about your????? good luck to you.
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