Update
Hi all, well My daughter and I have made it through the first few days of being without a husband and father . At first it was hard, but i've spent alot of time thinking, and on the phone with old friends. Guess what, I actually have plans next weekend with an old friend to go to the comedy club. I'll be dammed if i'm going to sit at home and feel sorry for myself and wait to see if the hubby ever decides to come back. Maybe he will and maybe he won't, and who knows, over time, I may not want his sorry cheatin butte back anyway.
Hubby did come by yesterday to visit with Shelby, we talked and have decided to just be friends, always were b 4, no reason not to still be that. We don't dislike one another, nor do we have ill feeling toward one another. We never fought while married, why start now. I think if we can both find happiness apart from one another, is better than bein miserable together.
I have so much to look forward too. I'm actually begining to like the idea of having my freedom back again. In the past I found myself just staying home so I could "spend time" with my husband,.even though we never did anything together. so now its my time to start living this new life I've begun with my surgery and now as a single person again.
Thanks for all the words of encouragement and prayers.
God Bless all of you, you are great
Kristi
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