RE: surgery over now the friends are gone!

I am really disenhearted by some people here on the IL board. I have been kindhearted to EVERYONE. Now the treatment I see is now that I've had my surgery and noone gets the drama of being the first to update, they don't want to talk with me. I am so happy that I am a christian and I'm sorry that so many think it's lame, because I don't drink nor get caught up in cutting down others. It is just sad. The support is gone now that I've had the surgery and I will stick to the christian weight loss forum and others, this obviously is not the place for me to fit in. The reason I'm writing this is so people know I'm FINE, but since I'm being ignored I know to leave where I'm not wanted, I have more respect for myself than that. Also those that were on my messenger list and choose to ignore me you are deleted and blocked as of the time I am writing this. Special thanks to: Lori Russell *****mains my friend even when I'm so busy lately. Brandy H. Who asks how I'm doing and listens, and I hope to be able to be there for her to help her with questions and encouragement. Blessings, BYE! Katie

Katie im so sorry that you feel that way.I know that we try to give encouragement weather you have had the surgery or not.I went back and viewed old posts and the only one i seen about you telling anything about the weight you have lost,it seemed like everyone was supporting you.I didnt see not one bad post of none incouragement.IM truley sorry,I know the people that do know you will miss you.I wish you wouldnt leave us,im sure now that you have said what you needed too we will try better next time.. (HUGS) Chandra

You know i have felt that way many times... but i'm sorry if I have offended you, although to tell you the truth I have no idea if I had and since I work my butt off trying to work 2 jobs so I dont have to accept public aid anymore I dont have time to read every single post on here. It doesnt mean that I dont care. I am however offended that I may now not be worthy since I am not a christian but past history shows thats not new... Of course my religion teaches patience and understanding so I learned not to get upset when someone doesnt reply to my posts But thats ok there's other boards to fit all of our needs. Debby

Katie, I'm sorry you feel this way. I know we all have busy lives and sometimes we forget to check on those we care about. I know that for me, if my husband is on the computer or gets on there first, he closes/deletes the IMs and I don't know anyone was even looking for me. You know where to find me. Hugs Melissa

Katie, I feel the same way! why do you think i'm never around anymore? too clicque-ish for my liking (sort of like high school but more pathetic because we're all adults). There are alot of really great, supportive people here and this is just a general comment, take it for what it is, and find a place where you feel welcome. ~Jenn

Hi Jenn!!!!!

Hi Chandra!!!

HELLO!?!! Zactly WHY havent you EMAILED ME??!!! My 13 year old asked about you tonight (told ya! didnt I!??!) and I said "HM...I DONT REALLY KNOW HOW JEN IS DOING....BECAUSE SHE NEVER FREAKING EMAILS ME ANYMORE'........(feeling guilty yet!?)

Your 13 year old asked about me? lol too funny! does he like older chicks? j/k. I have been bad at updating, this site just turned me off and I rarely check back here anymore. Congrats on your PS consult by the way! there's not much news on me really, i'm down 110 pounds and have hit a plateau for 2 weeks (could be the exercise, building muscle and stuff.. yeah thats it! ) I've been a BAD BAD angelette! I'll send you before and after pics tonight, sexy mama! xoxo ~Jenn

huh..so maybe the pics got lost(