Just a few prayers please...
Since you all are here for me i just wanted to share this, wasnt going to but my emotions are up and down and if i have food issues because of this i figure this is my place to be.
To try and make it short, my ex's family mainly uncles are abusive ** always have been. With that siad, i got a call this weekend, informing us, the ex, his brother and me that their grandmother had passed away last week dec. 8 (while i was still in hospital), she lived her last days out of state so her daughter my mother in law could care for her, and they brought her back here for services and purposfully left us out.
My daughter is devestated, we are grieveing the loss and the meaness at the same time. they are so horriable that my mother in law had to sneak out of the hotel at 3am to drop off the xmas presants before she left to go back, i woke my daughter up cause they havent seen each other in 5yrs. I thank God for that 2 hours but am still devestated by what they did.
My ex is in county jail finishing out a sentance for an old case and has been told, he will be out by the 28th. I was left to tell his brother. How rude.
Anyways i am hanging in there, emtions up and down and being strong for my daughter.
Please pray for strength for us. She is bi-polar and i am so afraid for her and what this could do to her.
thank you all for being there.
giovanna
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Im sorry you had to go thru that, I hope things get better for you and your daughter.
I have gone thru a simmilar situation but it was with my sister who was married to a controlling, evil assh*le for many, many years. She was dx'ed w/Colon cancer and he refused any of us to see her, and if we made a stink about it, we feared he would give her greif for it so we didnt pu****
He even gave a priest the finger and slammed the door in his face while she was in the hospital.
Anyway, she passed away 4 months later, I really think she did because she wanted out of the horrible situation she was in.
He told distant relatives (he didnt contact anyone of her immediate family) that he *may* have a wake/funeral etc within the week, then came back about a week and a half after her death and said he was going to have a private ceremony. I said bullsh*t he is, and called every cemetary I could find in the phone book, I eventually had to track the home hospice she was affiliated with and they directed me to the funeral home they were affiliated with. It turned out that he picked up her ashes the day before. So the ******* went ahead and cremated her right away and lied about it.
We went ahead with a church service and luncheon for her anyway.
I still wish the worst possible death on that pig.
Anyway, sorry for what your going through. For me the hatred is still there even though I know its not healthy. I hope you and your daughter have a better outcome.
Oh, Giovanna, how awful for all of you, but especially your daughter. I'm a firm believer in people getting what's coming to them eventually, even if it looks to us like it will never happen. Just think of your daughter and how much it means to her to have you by her side. I'll be thinking of you.
Terry
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