Self Esteem down the drain!!!!

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen It's been awhile since I've posted, sorry I'm down 50+ pounds. I'm already hearing the compliments (although they sound negative), "Your pants are really sagging off your a** now", "You have a bone in your nose I never noticed before" (NOTE: Add that to my PS list) "Your losing so much weight in your face, your double chin skin is hanging" (Another PS item). NOTE TO SELF........Update profile picture!!!!!! Anyhoo.....I went out this past Saturday night to Bourbonn St. and I thought I looked pretty good. NOT!!!!! What girls/women wear now and days is totally ****y! Don't get me wrong, I'd be the first to join their group if I was reborn 18 again! I couldn't get over how boys/men want a ****y looking broad over a classy one, ME!!! Someone please fill me in, not that I am on the market, but it would be nice to atleast have someone look at you or ask you to Thanks for letting me vent Congrats on all recent and upcoming surgeries!!!!! Laura 266/212/125

It wil be ok see I am at that funny age to (32)where I am too OLd for the club scene and to young neighborhood bars hahaha I have been to Bourbon Street on Thursdays- More laid back not so many hoochies! But I feel ya' on the revealing tip- the outfits are skimpy and its like December!What's up with that!!!! So pull yourself up, dust yourself off ,and all will be well- it is just that in between stage.And everybody knows.You can't turn a H*# into a housewife! The reason those men are not paying the attention are because the REAL WOMEN SCAR THEM!!!! And yes it feels good to get some attention-but it's just where you go!Next time try a less "clubby"type of club.......you'll see a change. Lisa (former south sider)

wow! 50lbs thats great Laura!! Congrats! Stay focused on the positive girl. If someone gives you a compliment (even if it sounds negative) just change it over in your mind to a positive comment....keep in mind that some people just have NO tact when it comes to the things they spew out of their mouth lol ...I'm sure they meant well no matter what...and then of course there are the ones that are jealous of your weight loss and will try to bring you down with comments that will make them feel better about themselves You are doing great!!...and I'm waiting for the day when you post..."I can't keep the men away from me...darn horn dogs!" LOL ....you'll be beatin them off with a stick ...focus on the positive hon and don't forget...classy is ALWAYS better then trashy! Take care and have a great week! ~hugs~ Konni

Id first like to say Congrats on your weight lose.Keep you the good work!I would say isnt the purpose of having the surgery so that you lose weight,and in return your clothes are not going to fit you very good,so who cares if they are saggin thats a good thing,and you become a newer healthier you.Now i think the comment about your nose was a little silly for someone to make, so what about the chin thing? That can be tighted up.When you start to lose more weight everythings going to sag.Thats ok too it can be tightened up alittle im sure.You still need more time.Ignore the bad comments and welcome the good ones. Im sure you looked very nice when you went out,things do change,and so are you.Thats why its time for something new to wear maybe not ****ty ones ,but something in between? I hope i have given you an idea or something.. good luck lots of hugs Chandra