Legal papers

Prior to my surgery in April, I had a Living Will and a Durable Medical Power of Attorney drawn up by an attorney and filled out. Both of these documents need only be witnessed by two people (as opposed to being notarized). (I also had a will prepared, but it requires two witnesses and a notary.) I highly recommend that each of you (pre- or post-op) make SURE you have these documents completed for you and your entire family. Reason? I have a very dear friend at work, 4 months younger than me, who inexplicably suffered a massive stroke about 3 weeks ago. She did NOT have these documents prepared. Now her family and "extended family" (i.e., partner) are quibbling about her care. It is a situation that could have easily been resolved with these documents prepared. Her parents are no longer alive; so there's some question about who, exactly, should be in charge of her care. She has adopted siblings and natural siblings as well as a partner ... SO! Just wanted to share this information ... Nancy 353/227/170

thanks! I already have copies of a living will, and once I get the OK from my dr for whether or not he'll do my surgery, I'm going to get them going. It kind of scares me to think about doing that, it seems like its FINAL. But, beings I have kids, I need to do this. My question is this, My 2 oldest boys are by someone other than my husband, their dad passed away 5 yrs ago. If something should happen to me and I dont make it through, can my husband legally keep the boys(they are not adopted by him,yet) If anyone could help me out with that, I'd really appreciate it! Thanks!!

Since he has not adopted them any blood relative could come in and declare to be their next of kin and ask for custody. Now if you were in 11 other states including Indiana, since he has been raising them he would even have to pay child support if someone else got custody.

eww, maybe I should move..lol I'd almost hate for any of their dad's side of the family to get custody of the boys. They are some scary folks. If only I had known what I was getting into when I tangled up with him..lol Anyhow, thank you for answering my questions, kind of helps me out.