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Hey guys thank you all so much for your concern about me and Michelle, thank God we both have guardian angels looking out for us. I felt fine after the wreck but this morning I'm stiff and my knee and shoulder are progessively getting worse. I will live through it. Right now I am dealing with a lot a lot a lot of guilt, the wreck was my fault, I ran a light, I dont even remember seeing it turn yellow it was as if it went from green to red instantly. Besides feeling horribly guilty over Michelle being injured I am now dealing with the financial aspect of the wreck, the loss of the car, the ticket, and my insurance premium sky rocketing. This is the first wreck and ticket I have ever had. I wish there was away to transfer Michelle's injuries to me because I just can't stand feeling this way. I dont get how she could have been more injured than me when my side took the impact. Thank God I didnt get her killed I dont know if I could have lived with that. But this woke me up on things I need to do like up my life insurance for the boys, make sure my house will be paid off if anything should ever happen to me, and get a will.... Install a roll bar in the next car.... For those of you at the meeting tonight, sorry I didnt make it, I fell asleep earlier today after talking to Michelle and woke up 20 minutes ago. I will be there next time I promise!!! As for the quest for surgery we both have decided to stay in our own back yard and venture to the New Hope Clinic and Dr's T. and staff. I'm going to call in a couple days to make our appointments. Thank's again everyone you all are so fantastic!! Debby

Hey Deb, I know that you feel guilty, but please ease up on yourself!!!! I love you and I don't blame you. I didn't see the light change either. I am just as worried about you as you are about me. We survived!!!!!! and thats all that matters. We are both still here for our kids and family and friends. By the way, Tell Nasir thanks for coming to get us for me. I was so tired last night i totally forgot my manners. Besides, in the light of day my face doesn't look that bad. Now all you need to do is get your ducks in a row, our how ever the phrase goes and install a roll bar in your next car. LOL You are still my as far as I am concerned.

THANKS Michelle, I luvs ya too!! I guess next time instead of alotting getting lost time we should allot for crash time. Bring your helmet!! Debby

Michelle, I saw Ken last night, he came over to check on me, he wanted to see my burn marks on my chest I told him yours was way worse, so he said if you need someone to look at your boobies he will be happy too.... After I slapped him he said LOOK DEAR JUST LOOK I WONT TOUCH LOL Men!

Tell Ken thanks for the offer but i think i will pass this time. LOLOLOLOL

Im glad you both are ok.Debby thats why they call them accidents, it happens try not to be so hard on your self.Your right about that insurance thats what my dad did incase something haapens it just makes sense..

{{{DEBBY}}} I'm so sorry about all of this. Try not to feel too bad. If you ran the light, the person that hit you wasn't paying too much attention either. The way you are explaining it, sounds like you were just sliding through the last seconds of green. We've all done it. ESPECIALLY ME. Living in the city, the only way to turn is to go through AFTER it turns red. LOL It happens, you are both ok so you need to remember that. If you need any information on Dr. T, let me know. AND let me know when you're gonna be here so we can meet up! If you want to make an overnight stay, my husband works at a Bed And Breakfast sometimes and it's like $60 a night. I bet you 2 could share a room (if you come together) and that would be $30 each. Then you wouldn't have to take the trip bac****il you are rested. I'd say you can stay here but I don't think both you and Michelle can sleep on my couch comfortably. And then you'd have the dog in your face and the cat on your back. LOL Good Luck! Melissa

Hi Debby Glad to hear you two didn't get hurt too bad......the car can be replaced... your lives cannot These things happen... pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and continue on in your journey Good Luck! Tracy Lap-RNY 8.14.03 -145lbs