OMG ... I gotta consult date!!

Hey ya'll, yes I know ive been gone for quite some time. My life has taken on mannnnyyyy different changes in the last few months. I finally got hubby out of the house. It took him hitting me again and going to jail to do it, but its happened. My whole life is taking on a whole new path and Im loving it!! Then to top it all off, today I checked my messages and Rachel from Dr. O's office was on there wanting me to call her back. I was skeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeered and excited all at the same time. So I called and got my consult date. They called me sooner than expected but my date is much later than I would have liked, but I wont complain at least now I have a lil bit of direction. It will be January the 3rd. I have lost 20 lbs in the last 3 months since Ive been working and all my clothes are too big now... and believe it or not Im NOT happy bout that, I look like one of these hiphop ppl with my britches hanging down all over the place lol Lori thanks for checking up on me , I love ya gf and I love that new pic too, its great you are beautiful :D I love and miss all of you , but I just had to get away for a lil while. Yes, I was probably being selfish, but I had to find myself and I think Ive done it.. and guess what, I missed me lol Dix

Welcome back and cong on the date of cosult We missed you dont stay away that long every again Take care of yourself

Dixie - I'm glad that you are now living in a more safe environment. I'm sorry for the pain that you have been through. Congrats on finally getting your consult date! Let me know if there is anything I can do to help you! Peggy -94lbs.

Yo, yo, yo what up D... Thats great that you were able to break away from him, I know how hard it is to break away from that vicious cycle. Congrats on getting a consult! And starting over. January will be her before you know it.

Dixie- I was wondering where you had went. You have to think of you and the boys first, thats the most important thing. I'm sorry that it took him hitting you, I've BTDT and its no fun. You will be better off in the long run without the stress of a man(especially and abusive one). Congrats on the consult!! I was wondering if they had ever gotten a hold of you. They called me June 17, and scheduled mine for Dec 20. Looks like we're all pretty close together. Except Lori, she got lucky and got in early..lol Glad to hear your doing a little better and the weight loss is awesome. I've been trying that myself, but I dont think its going too well..lol When you get time, stop by here again!! We miss hearing from you!!(((( Dixie and boys))))

let me clarify by when I say abusive, I mean mentally and physically. I dont know your situtation, but you said he hit you again, so its happened before. I dont want to just assume and get you upset with me.

Dix sorry I missed this post but I just want to say now its time for you so no boohooing and please dont take him back!!! to many women get scared they can't make it without him and end up taking the man back. Then nothing changes.... You can do it without him look into going back to college there are TONS of grants out there for you they will pay for everything so if you want any advice on this feel free to email me I will help you all I can... IF i can do it you can too, and let me tell you nothing in this world is more exciting than going back to college.... my ex use to tell me i was to stupid for college guess he was wrong I graduated with honors LOL and YOU CAN TOO!!!!!!!!!!!! think of something you'd like to do there are ton's of two year occupational degree's out there.... you can qualify for full grants and you can probably get a student worker job on campus too!!1 its only minimum wage but that with the grants / child support you can make it... Email me i will give you my number we can talk on the phone if you want advice with this... Debby