Monday Roll Call

Good Morning!

I know its way early! Its 436 am and Im up! Cant sleep! Im missing the cry of my new baby! I probably shouldnt of left so soon, But I was in Chicago for a month and thatvwas enough for me in a small apartment!!!!!

Ill fly up in December if the flights go down! Right now they r over 409.00 rt. I think snother driving trip is in my future.....

Connie have u had your Thyroid checked? Itching is a sign of thyroid problems.

Talk on Ill check back later, My Keurig is calling me!

Carla

Good Morning Carla,

I was up by 5, but no excuse other then I had the bedroom light out by 11:15 last night. Tell your daughter to send daily pictures of that little beauty.

The growing season is done. Hubby will be taking out the rest of the tomatoes and peppers today. I am taking a bag of peppers to work today, maybe the other girls in my office will want them, or I will put them out for clients.

Working today and tomorrow, then after work tomorrow, we will be going to Bloomington for a choral concert.

BTW, I am on my 2nd cup of Kalua.

Hugs,

Hi
On my way to Madison to the dermatologist who specializes in contact allergies. This started with a Cat scan and then with the sheets in the hospital. Can't wait to find out and intervene.

I'll post again later if I find out something.

Connie

Hi Chickies,

I am in the same boat as Crystal. My car is dead. I think it is my ignition switch. Ugh. Car probs and pet probs are the worst for me. I dont deal well with them.

I am starting to feel human again. I am 50% better. Cough is lingering. But the body aches are gone...so is the fever.

It is amazing how clean a house can become when one is furious with their husband. My house has never been this clean. All I do is scrub and scrub. It's good for the house and good for my stress level. All I can say about this situation is; it is a good thing I am a Christian woman.

Carla, I know you miss that baby. Get pics everyday and a report of whats new. It helps.Thank goodness for cell phones. Smart phones even record. I love looking at recordings of my grand babies on the phone.

Connie, Itching is awful. I hope you can figure out why this happening. I take Zyrtec D for itching when I eat something that makes me hive up.

Lisa, thanks for the kind words. I needed them. I am very hurt right now.

Nancy, I am an open book and I abhor secrets of any kind from my spouse. It makes me think the worst. I have never been a nosy wife but it seems my cavalier attitude and trust has smacked me right in the face.

G and Silvia Del Real Sotelo (on FB her name is "Iwillalwaysloveyou)  have been meeting for months when I am at my house group or when he supposedly is at his parents. She says they "found each other" after 30 years of being apart. They went to HS together.She says I have to accept their friendship because it is a special relationship between 2 soul mates. This woman had the audacity to say this to me when I called her and asked her why she is calling my husband 10-15 times per day. I asked her to stop contacting him and she said that isnt going to happen.

I am off to clean my bathroom. I want to scrub the floor on my hands and knees.

Hugs everyone,

Sharon

I have a shovel and live in the sticks.

Boy, you made me laugh. Laughter IS the best medicine. Hugs, Sharon

Sharon-  Wow.  That just shocks me.  What is G saying about this...because it is him that needs to make the step to stop contacting her.  He is the one cheating.  And it IS cheating.  If he has to do it behind your back then it's cheating!!!  Even if they never touched each other...cheating of the heart....that's what I call it.   

What I would do if I were you.  I'm not sure how close you are to your pastor.  I would ask for a "counseling" session with him.  Lay out exactly what is going on to the pastor.  He will talk to you two and more than likely tell G that what he is doing is wrong.  I would decide what you are willing to live with in terms of this "affair".  And lay down the law....and stick to your guns.

This is just me.  But seeing that you have a third party person that you can go to that would be unbiased and would just speak the truth in terms of "right and wrong" according to the bible....I would take advantage of this.  The good thing is he is a man of god and he does (I believe) genuinely love you, and I don't think the affair has gone past anything but flirting.  I think your relationship can be saved IF he is willing to dump the woman and NEVER talk to her again and then work on why he was doing this to begin with.  I would even change his number....because you know she will hound him.

I am so so so so sorry...my thoughts are with you my friend.  

Good afternoon Carla and the rest of Illinois:

I am back after an eventful weekend. 

Today, I need to grocery shop and try to get my week scheduled.

Thinking of you all and sending good thoughts to everyone.

Hi,
I have a back covered with paper and little buttons with allergens. I can't get my back wet till after I see the doc on Friday. She was very thorough and I liked her.
Then we went to the yarn store inVerona and knit with a group of great women.
At 3 we went to the clinic to see Dr. Garren for a 2 year checkup. I don't go back till next Year! That seems impossible given I've been monthly for the last two years! I knit him Packer socks! He was tickled! But I 'll miss seeing him and the nurses too!

Thinking about each of you and the things you are dealing with. If you want to talk message me and I'll send you my phone number.
Connie

Hello everyone

My day was a busy one.  I got to work an hour early to get a jump on my work...because I missed Friday.  I also took a cab to work today and that was a first.  But I work with some wonderful people...people offered to give me a ride home and pick me.  So no more cabs.  Yeah!!! 

Yesterday's party was nice.  It was fun and the kids just crack me.  It was just hanging out and eating.  I really didn't do much eating.  I had a burger and it stuffed me.  I was too full to have much more. 

I got jealous again.  And this was so stupid...but I didn't make a big deal out it.  I just could feel my emotions rising up in me.  Basically Chris was talking about this old movie he saw called Mickey One from the 60's.  He made a comment several times about the woman in the movie being very beautiful.  I looked it up because of course I have to be a glutton for punishment.  Her name is Alexandra Stewart.  Well she's gorgeous.  He then was saying...oh you go****ch this with me.  I then said...oh I'm no****ching that movie with you.  And he figured out why and found it comical.  Well I just kept my mouth shut.  I know I am being stupid and I can;t help it.  But the thought of sitting and watching that movie all the while knowing he's thinking "oh man she's freaking hot"...just bothers me.  Now how am I supposed to deal with that???  I don't know???  What I did do was just kept it to myself.  What I wanted to say was...how can you find me beautiful and turn around and eyeball women that look this gorgeous???  I mean I have been through the wringer...I had a kid, I was obese and lost 180 lbs and my body shows this.  So when he makes these comments about these mega gorgeous women...how am I supposed to feel beautiful and gorgeous...especially if that's the ruler to which I am being judged!!!  I will never measure up to that...especially naked!!!  That is what I wanted to say...this what was going through my terribly insecure head. 

Well I'm making myself turkey meatballs and wheatless spaghetti for dinner...so I have a good evening.  Bye