I am crying my heart out please help

I had the lapband surgeries in September 08 and 2 month after my lapband surgeries my pcp noticed that there was no function with my gallbladder it has to be removed she advise me it was ok with me because I was getting seack all the time I loss the weight everything was normal until recently my lab show that I was droping protein in my urine oh God please what can I do to repair this I need help I cannot affort to lose my kidney I always wanted to be a mom my dream is getting shadow my pcp put me on a pill to fortified my kidney and also told me that she was not sure what causing that it could be my kidney getting bad please I need advice. Thanks....

Sometimes it is valuable to get more information, could your PCP suggest a nephrologist?  It can't hurt to get a second opinion about what's really going on.  I don't think kidney failure is the only reason for protein in the urine.....please check it out.

I am sorry that you are having medical problems. You really need to see a specialist. We cannot help with this issue. All we can do is offer you support. Do you have insurance or are you on the state medical card? Either of them will support you to get a second opinion.

LISA

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I can't say anything that the others have not said......I just wanted to give you some love.

 Princess

Hugs.  

Take a deep breath.  It is very important to see a specialist.  I have had the same problem for about 5 years.  My specialist has me on a diuretic (water pill) and believe it or not, blood pressure medicine even though I do not have problems with high blood pressure.  This has stabilized me and I have stayed the same for 5 years without any further deterioration.  It is frightening, but the goal is to maintain the function of your kidneys with where they are.  You don't want to have them get worse.  That is why it is important to see the specialist.  With their help, hopefully, you can maintain the functions that you have of you kidneys.  It can be scary, but it also can be controlled.  So, ask your doctor for a referral to a specialist.  Hang in there!  You are in my thoughts and prayers.  

Nancy