Thank you and update

Dear Friends:

Thank yo SOOOOO much for all the love, support and great advice concerning my marital issue.

I am going to call a counselor so that I have someone to talk to and help me wrap my brain around this.

The good news is that last night, Todd and I had a little alone time and things seemed better.  Not perfect, but better.

I HAVE taken into account the close friends' deaths and other things that have been happening that might be contributing to Todd's "issues".  I am really hoping that it was just a small setback and not the life change that I was afraid of seeing, but I am still not too sure at this point.

I am going to try to give him some space and not be a nag and hope for the best.

I REALLY appreciate all of the love and support and keep us in your thoughts and prayers because this ain't over yet. 

I DO have to get on with things and meet my responsibilities and I feel quite a bit better today.
Tomorrow is another day........

Dawn, you do sound like you are in a better frame of mind today.
Just take it one day at a time.

HUGS, LISA

I think the counselor will be a great help. I think sometimes as a mother we do tend to devote our time to our children. Men sometimes feel like they were put on the back burner.   I also think Christine hit it right on target... Good luck and sending prayers and happy vibes your way...
Karen

Glad you had a bit of time together and that it was positive. Do follow through for yourself with a counselor even if he won't go. You will be better in the long run.

Connie