Death in the Family

Lucy M.
on 7/24/09 1:40 am - Conway, SC
Eileen, thanks so much for your thoughtfulness.

I'm sure that I will be here, needing the support from my friends. I've missed that so much.

Lucy

484.8/383.4/241/188/150 
                  Sexy 
Pre-op/RNY day/pre DS day/current/goal-  Realize Band 5/15/08; RNY 6/8/05, Removal Band and RNY to DS 8/25/10. RNY & Band surgeon was Dr. Guske.

 





                          
cheroity
on 7/24/09 2:37 am - granite city, IL
Lucy,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss . May the light and love of GOD see you and you family thru this time ....Cheroity
Lucy M.
on 7/24/09 1:07 pm - Conway, SC
Cheroity, thank you so much for your thoughtfulness.

Lucy

484.8/383.4/241/188/150 
                  Sexy 
Pre-op/RNY day/pre DS day/current/goal-  Realize Band 5/15/08; RNY 6/8/05, Removal Band and RNY to DS 8/25/10. RNY & Band surgeon was Dr. Guske.

 





                          
Nancy G.
on 7/24/09 6:26 am - La Salle, IL
 ((((((Lucy))))))

I am so sorry to hear that things have been rough for you.  I hope that you are making progress with your personal issues.  Remember, one day at a time and that there is always hope regardless of how bad things seem to be.  

I am also so sorry to hear about the death of your stepfather.  I know it is hard to lose a loved one.  It is even more difficult when it is affecting your mom so much.  I know that your relationship with your mom makes this even more of a difficult path to navigate.  I hope you both can find some resolution as you go through your grief.  

If you ever need and ear, I am always willing to listen.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.  

I am so glad to see you posting.  Please remember that we are here for you.  Come back and post whenever you are able.  We have missed you.  


    Cat Lady

Lucy M.
on 7/24/09 1:11 pm - Conway, SC
Hi Nancy. This is one of the most difficult times in my life.

I've been so tired these past 3 days. At least tomorrow morning I have some time for myself. Hopefully I can sleep a bit longer tonight. My eyes are so tired; I had a hard time driving home tonight.

Thanks for your support and thoughtfulness.

Lucy

484.8/383.4/241/188/150 
                  Sexy 
Pre-op/RNY day/pre DS day/current/goal-  Realize Band 5/15/08; RNY 6/8/05, Removal Band and RNY to DS 8/25/10. RNY & Band surgeon was Dr. Guske.

 





                          
Karen R.
on 7/24/09 8:46 am
Lucy,
So sorry to hear of your families loss. I do hope it helps you to know we all care, we have been concerned about how you were doing. It has been a Long time since hearing from you. Mom will be needing you more now. I lost my step dad in 2006 to cancer and my mom calls me now for the dumbest little things. Like today see called for her banks phone number! I told her to look it up. She does not have a phone book. I was driving in the car and I said me neither. She got mad at me.... She just needed to know I was there for her. I just let her out lash go over me and said oh well. Its all in a days work...
Just know we are your family here and if you need us let us know.

Karen

                                                                                                                                         

     
                                                         

     
 

 

    

Lucy M.
on 7/24/09 1:15 pm - Conway, SC
Hi Karen. I can see that you do understand what I will be going through. My Mom is going to be so dependent on me and my sister. We've had a lot of disagreements so we'll have to see how this will go.

I just need to get through the next 3 days and am already so physically and emotionally exhausted. I just pray that I don't get sick.

I do need some "me" time as I have been out early and all day into the late evening since Wednesday, just coming home to sleep.

Thanks for your kindness.

Lucy

484.8/383.4/241/188/150 
                  Sexy 
Pre-op/RNY day/pre DS day/current/goal-  Realize Band 5/15/08; RNY 6/8/05, Removal Band and RNY to DS 8/25/10. RNY & Band surgeon was Dr. Guske.

 





                          
birder I.
on 7/24/09 9:37 am - Rockford, IL

Sorry you are having to go through this. These kind of situations and losses are so hard to deal with, but I am glad to see you back on the board. Take care of yourself even in tough times.

Connie

 

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Lucy M.
on 7/24/09 1:17 pm - Conway, SC
Hi Connie. It's been a hard time to deal with all the emotions and trying to keep my mom going through this difficult time.

Thanks for the kindness and thoughts.

Lucy

484.8/383.4/241/188/150 
                  Sexy 
Pre-op/RNY day/pre DS day/current/goal-  Realize Band 5/15/08; RNY 6/8/05, Removal Band and RNY to DS 8/25/10. RNY & Band surgeon was Dr. Guske.

 





                          
Cat C
on 7/25/09 8:27 am - Arlington Heights, IL
Hi Lucy,

Sorry for your loss, I am praying that the pain you feel and your Mother's will be eased with time.

Hugs,

Cathy

    highest weight -277  Surgery Day- 248.8  Current weight 162 / Goal-130 

 

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