Tuesday Roll Call
Good Morning everyone,
Dee, isn't is great to try on clothes and realize that you are such a small size. I still have a really hard time with that one.
Though I am sorry it had to be funeral clothes for you! hugs my friend. I'm with you in spirit.
Today I have to run to the post office and to Target (They have a dvd on sale that I want! lol) and then pick up Tyler from wrestling practice at 5pm and other than that, it's continue the cleaning up of desks and homework.
My Dr's appt went great yesterday. She put me on Zoloft to try because that should help my major PMS I get too. We shall see. She gave me a script for 100mg, so I only had to pay for one month, but I split them in 1/2 for the 50 mg I need. It only cost me $9.25 for 2 months then...not bad at all. lol I am also going to go back in the pill, but not for birth control...just to see if that helps things too. Sorry, you guys probably don't want to hear all that! lol
Last night we had a HUGE blow up here between Tyler and Jacob and now Tyler is grounded for at least a month and has lost the use of his computer and cell phone. They were bickering and Jacob said something and Tyler got up and shoved Jacob really hard onto the back of the couch and then took his palm and hit Jacob right over the ear really hard. Jacob couldn't hear for almost an hour and was in a ton of pain. I grabbed Tyler to pull him off and he turned and grabbed my arms. Well let's just say that he's stronger than me already, but he didn't dare try anything. I screamed at him, I know...not good, and he stormed upstairs and broke the doorframe to their bed room door. I of course spent most of the rest of the night crying. I just don't get it. I am hoping it's because he's a 14 yr old boy that he's got these temper flares...but this morning we talked and he said that he was sorry and he's worried about jacob's hearing now. I didn't tell him that Jacob is fine now, I figured I'd let him wonder for a while...bad mom that I am!
Sorry for the novel this morning, I just needed to get that out. Have a wonderful, warm and safe day today!!
Dee, isn't is great to try on clothes and realize that you are such a small size. I still have a really hard time with that one.
Though I am sorry it had to be funeral clothes for you! hugs my friend. I'm with you in spirit.
Today I have to run to the post office and to Target (They have a dvd on sale that I want! lol) and then pick up Tyler from wrestling practice at 5pm and other than that, it's continue the cleaning up of desks and homework.
My Dr's appt went great yesterday. She put me on Zoloft to try because that should help my major PMS I get too. We shall see. She gave me a script for 100mg, so I only had to pay for one month, but I split them in 1/2 for the 50 mg I need. It only cost me $9.25 for 2 months then...not bad at all. lol I am also going to go back in the pill, but not for birth control...just to see if that helps things too. Sorry, you guys probably don't want to hear all that! lol
Last night we had a HUGE blow up here between Tyler and Jacob and now Tyler is grounded for at least a month and has lost the use of his computer and cell phone. They were bickering and Jacob said something and Tyler got up and shoved Jacob really hard onto the back of the couch and then took his palm and hit Jacob right over the ear really hard. Jacob couldn't hear for almost an hour and was in a ton of pain. I grabbed Tyler to pull him off and he turned and grabbed my arms. Well let's just say that he's stronger than me already, but he didn't dare try anything. I screamed at him, I know...not good, and he stormed upstairs and broke the doorframe to their bed room door. I of course spent most of the rest of the night crying. I just don't get it. I am hoping it's because he's a 14 yr old boy that he's got these temper flares...but this morning we talked and he said that he was sorry and he's worried about jacob's hearing now. I didn't tell him that Jacob is fine now, I figured I'd let him wonder for a while...bad mom that I am!
Sorry for the novel this morning, I just needed to get that out. Have a wonderful, warm and safe day today!!
Monica
Monica I am sorry that the boys are giving you so much trouble I know that mine did that to me a lot, I have spend a lot of nights crying too, It does get better as they grow , Hang in their , we are all here for you,
big hugs to you ((((((Monica)))))
Janet
big hugs to you ((((((Monica)))))
Janet
Success begins with wise choices I make,I will not let noncompliance be my mistake, The surgery I had was to assist me in changes. My compliance is for a success long range, So I will think before I decide to cheat. Remember the goals I want to meet. For this surgery is not something I was force to do It was what I wanted for a healthy life!
My dear Monica,
Boys will be boys, and I think that is one of the worse ages....TEENS!! Hang in there.
What dvd are you getting? There is several movies I want to see.
Thanks for your thoughts and prayers. I will get by.
I was going to tell you the other day I take Lexapro, it keeps me from shooting first and asking questions later...lol My PMS symptoms have almost all faded away with that. Bill likes it...lol
Take care darling,
Dee
Boys will be boys, and I think that is one of the worse ages....TEENS!! Hang in there.
What dvd are you getting? There is several movies I want to see.
Thanks for your thoughts and prayers. I will get by.
I was going to tell you the other day I take Lexapro, it keeps me from shooting first and asking questions later...lol My PMS symptoms have almost all faded away with that. Bill likes it...lol
Take care darling,
Dee
Thanks Dee, yes boys will be boys that is true. Tyler needs to realize that he is much stronger than either of his younger brother's though and can hurt them even if he doesn't mean to.
I am hoping the Zoloft helps with the PMS, cuz I have been shooting first lately and asking questions later. it's not good
I want to get the DVD of Season's 1 and 2 of Jon and Kate Plus 8. I watch that show every Monday night and just love it. Can't wait til those kids are teens! LOL Target has it on sale right now, both for $9.99
Though I am not going today, I don't think, it's snowing like crazy outside!! lol
I am hoping the Zoloft helps with the PMS, cuz I have been shooting first lately and asking questions later. it's not good
I want to get the DVD of Season's 1 and 2 of Jon and Kate Plus 8. I watch that show every Monday night and just love it. Can't wait til those kids are teens! LOL Target has it on sale right now, both for $9.99
Though I am not going today, I don't think, it's snowing like crazy outside!! lol
Monica
Sorry to hear about your boys. I had the same problem about a month ago with mine......but of course, mine are Todd and David. It got REALLY ugly for a while there and I was almost afraid that I would be calling the police!!!!
I too spent the night crying myself to sleep and most of the next day. When I saw David after work the next day, he was back to his usual self and very apologetic. I guess it is just something they DO (anger outbursts), but we don't have to like it.
I do not think you are "bad mom" at all for letting Tyler stew for a bit........he NEEDS to THINK about what he did and realize that he IS bigger and stronger, but that does not make it OK to bully anyone (especially Mom).
Here's to better days! Just wanted you to know that you are not alone.....ever.
I too spent the night crying myself to sleep and most of the next day. When I saw David after work the next day, he was back to his usual self and very apologetic. I guess it is just something they DO (anger outbursts), but we don't have to like it.
I do not think you are "bad mom" at all for letting Tyler stew for a bit........he NEEDS to THINK about what he did and realize that he IS bigger and stronger, but that does not make it OK to bully anyone (especially Mom).
Here's to better days! Just wanted you to know that you are not alone.....ever.
Tell someone that you love them!
Dawn
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thank you Dawn. It does help to know that I am not alone. I have no idea what would have happened had Mike been home. He's not happy about the door frame that's for sure.
Tyler was very subdued this morning and that's fine. Let him think about it. He is stronger than everyone except Mike in this house now and while I know he wouldn't hurt anyone intentionally, it's not to say that he "couldn't" hurt one of us, ya know? He's really bulking up with upper body muscles from wrestling.
I was going to get him a weight machine for his birthday, so I could use it too (ulterior motives) but I don't know now...we'll see.
Tyler was very subdued this morning and that's fine. Let him think about it. He is stronger than everyone except Mike in this house now and while I know he wouldn't hurt anyone intentionally, it's not to say that he "couldn't" hurt one of us, ya know? He's really bulking up with upper body muscles from wrestling.
I was going to get him a weight machine for his birthday, so I could use it too (ulterior motives) but I don't know now...we'll see.
Monica
Monica
I was reading your post and it actually reminds me of my sister and I. I think sometimes kids do things to each other not realizing how badly you can hurt them. When I was a kid I pushed my sister off her bike not really thinking and it ended up breaking her leg. I didn't mean to break her leg and felt bad afterward. I'm sure your son just doesn't stop to think about the consequences of his actions. Like me when I was a kid.
Cheer up it will get better. My sister and I hardly ever hit each other now..LOL
Thanks Crystal. You're last part made me giggle. I think part of the reason I have a hard time is that my sister and I have been best friends our whole lives and I can honestly only remember one time that we actually fought. she's 4 yrs older than me and we have 2 older siblings too, but we were the closest. I can't imagine saying to my sister the things my boys say to each other. lol
Monica
Good morning Dee and the rest of IL, Dee be careful on the roads today if you have to go out.
I know what you are saying on the size I too was shocked when I got a pair of shorts for next year on sale of course $3.00 in a size 6 they fix every where but would not close all the way so I got them as of Friday my tummy wont be in the way any more. it felt oh so good
Today I am off the see the PS and get the papers signed and everything ready, I can't wait but I am scared to death,, more scared then when I had my RNY with that I was as calm as can be
Jim was called back to work today of all days I really wanted him to go with me to the Dr. but I will be fine , I just hope they don't get mad that he wont be their Friday, as this is his Vacation time and they are all on shut down there,
That is about all that is going on here, Hope everyone has a great day and stay warm
Oh all most forgot a funny thing I did yesterday,
I got the P&L bill yesterday and the Elec, is way high so I told Jim I was going to switch the fan on the heater to Auto instead of running all the time to see if that helps, Well I guess I really need to get new Glasses because instead of the fan switch I but the Heater switch to Air Cond, When Jim got up at 3:45 AM he thought the house was extra cold yea it was 52 this Morning , He told me that at lease when I got up the house would be warm again,
Just want to share,
bye for now
Hugs to all
Janet
I know what you are saying on the size I too was shocked when I got a pair of shorts for next year on sale of course $3.00 in a size 6 they fix every where but would not close all the way so I got them as of Friday my tummy wont be in the way any more. it felt oh so good
Today I am off the see the PS and get the papers signed and everything ready, I can't wait but I am scared to death,, more scared then when I had my RNY with that I was as calm as can be
Jim was called back to work today of all days I really wanted him to go with me to the Dr. but I will be fine , I just hope they don't get mad that he wont be their Friday, as this is his Vacation time and they are all on shut down there,
That is about all that is going on here, Hope everyone has a great day and stay warm
Oh all most forgot a funny thing I did yesterday,
I got the P&L bill yesterday and the Elec, is way high so I told Jim I was going to switch the fan on the heater to Auto instead of running all the time to see if that helps, Well I guess I really need to get new Glasses because instead of the fan switch I but the Heater switch to Air Cond, When Jim got up at 3:45 AM he thought the house was extra cold yea it was 52 this Morning , He told me that at lease when I got up the house would be warm again,
Just want to share,
bye for now
Hugs to all
Janet
Success begins with wise choices I make,I will not let noncompliance be my mistake, The surgery I had was to assist me in changes. My compliance is for a success long range, So I will think before I decide to cheat. Remember the goals I want to meet. For this surgery is not something I was force to do It was what I wanted for a healthy life!
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