Christmas Wishes and 1 yr Surgiversary

Wendi W.
on 12/24/08 12:26 am - Waukegan, IL

Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays to my IL OH family.

As I sit here and drink my coffee the snow is falling.  The flakes are big and fluffy like feathers, and so far this storm has dumped more than 4 inches since yesterday.  My shopping is done, and now I just have to clean the house and finish wrapping.  Tonight for dinner is pancakes, bacon and sausage at the request of our son Quentin.  Tomorrow will be quiet, as my husband and daughter will have to work, so dinner will be later that night.  We will be having ham, squash, and who knows what else.  I have been home since last friday as the economic conditions had my company require all US employees to take 10 days of unpaid furlough.  I am also on winter break from school so I just get to hang out for a few days and do absolutely nothing. 

I also would like to say that it is hard to believe that my 1 year surgiversary is coming up on Sunday, December 28th.  One year ago today, I was going through my last meals and enjoying the holidays in a gluten of food.  I am now down to 152 lbs and have been maintaining which is fine for me.  I have been lucky that the only complication that I have had to endure is my gallbladder back in June/July.  I have already gotten my labs drawn, so I will now go and pick up the results after the first of the year and I have my appointment with Dr. Kane Jr.  the middle of January.  But, with that said I would like to pass some wisdom on to those waiting or just recently having joined the losers bench.

1. Patience - I know that this harder said than done, but remember to be patient with your self, as the weight did not just show up over night. 
2. Listen and be in tune with your body.  Your body will give you signs that there are things going on, and if you think something is wrong go to the dr. immediately. 
3. Celebrate every little milestone that you hit.  I made an effort for each 5lbs I bought a charm for my bracelet.  Now, I make sure to celebrate for maintaining my weight.
4. Love.  Learn to love yourself again.  For years the self hatred of not being able to loose weight, or being able to achieve goals had me in a spot of where I was my own worst critic.  This is a hard one to overcome as well, because the years of negative self talk has become so ingrained into ones brain retraining is needed.

So, now that I have rambled on this is quite long, the last thing I want to do is say THANK YOU! to everyone here for their love and support.  I could have not have been as successful without you and your words of wisdom.

Wendi

   
       
 
Laffingbead
on 12/24/08 12:46 am - Montgomery, IL
 Wendi,

As someone who just joined the loser's bench, I really appreciated your words of wisdom.  Congratulations on your success and positive attitude.

Merry Christmas
Ilse
5'6"  380(HW)/316(First visit)230.2(Current)/154(goal)

Laffingbead
on 12/24/08 12:49 am - Montgomery, IL
Monica G.
on 12/24/08 2:34 am - North Aurora, IL
Wendi!  hugs and love you to you my friend.  I am SO proud of you!!

Monica

 

        
Karen R.
on 12/24/08 1:02 pm
Wendi, you have done a great job. Your words of wisdom are really good ones as well!

Karen

                                                                                                                                         

     
                                                         

     
 

 

    

eyenjeff
on 12/25/08 11:47 am - Mt Prospect, IL
Wendi,

Thank you for the warm wishes!  Right back at Ya!  CONGRATULATIONS on your achievement and all the hard work you have done! 

Thank you for all the advice, you have a great way of expressing yourself!

Merry CHristmas and Happy New Year!

                     EILEEN
 

berts4
on 12/25/08 11:51 pm - Rock City, IL
Dear Wendi:

It is SO good to see you again!

You have done an excellent job and I really wish to congratulate you.  Your advice is right-on also!

Love to you and your family!

 

Tell someone that you love them!
Dawn
253/223/167/127
HW/SW/CW/GW
 

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