I'm Here

Good morning Illinois friends. I am here safe and sound.

First of all I want to say that I have been thinking of you all and hope that whatever has been going on in your life or your family is getting better. It appears that we all have some concerns or problems going on.

I've been having major financial and personal issues for sometime now. It really hit home when my home equity line was cut off.

Needless to say, I've been struggling with my weight issues too.

My mom who I love but has been judgmental of me all my life keeps hurting me with her words. I've been in enough pain due to not having a significant other in my life but she continues to hurt me with her words. I'm only acceptable to her if I do as she says and if I am thin. Otherwise, I am no good in her eyes. That is so hurtful.

I am happy for all of you who are able to stay within goal or are losing weight consistently. That's what it is all about. No one understands us better than ourselves. That's why this board is so important, even if we don't post regularly.

Thanks to Dawn, Christine P. and Lisa for asking about me, as well as sending me a PM.

Miss my fellow devil friend Pam.

Hugs,
Lucy

Yes, we can make it at 12, then I don't have to go back to work either!

Looking forward to our time.

Lucy

Lucy, I'm so glad to see you posting and to hear that you are OK. I know we are all going through much more difficult times than we ever expected to have. I have a mother like yours and I know what that feels like. My phrase regarding her is "Other people's  (Mom's) opinions of me are none of my business!". Say it to yourself 100 times a day--it's been a help to me.

My weight loss is slow to slower and I struggle too. I have to remind myself that this is a three year process with the band and I;m still better off than before surgery.

Keep checking in with us so we can support you!

Connie