A Little Nervous!
Ok, ok ok...now let me pre-empt this saying I know that there are so many good stories, and everyone is different in how their bodies do after surgery, BUT, that being said...silly me reads the "Any Regrets" forum and I am getting really nervous about all the issues that seem to arise a few years after surgery (i.e. malabsorption, hernias, etc). I am really positive for the most part, and I know all the risks involved, but yet when I read these things it makes me a little scared. One woman even posted that her Mom died of malnutrition. Did you all go through that period before? Believe me, I know in my heart this is totally the right decision for me, but that little devil sitting on my shoulder creeps every now and then :(
It's very normal to have fear and get cold feet. I know for me, it was the best thing I could have done for myself and then for my family. You're right, everyone has different experiences and recoveries. I'm sure the good out beats the bad by a long, long, long shot. If I had not made this move, I possibly would not be here a few years from now so, I will take the risk of possible problems or complications along the way. I'll be two years out August 30th and thus far, absolutley no problems. I've been blessed. I wish you all the best and hope you can find something to calm your nerves. Christina
