Need some backup...

Brooke G.
on 10/6/07 7:10 am, edited 10/6/07 7:14 am - IN
Hi everyone... I used to come here all the time (don't you love how we refer to the boards as if they are an actual place rather than a virtual one) but then I got lazy and now I can't remember the last time I was here.  I guess I'm not alone though because I don't see a lot of familiar faces... hanging around... or maybe everyone has just changed so much I don't recognize them. Anyways let me give you a brief introduction and then onto the problem...  I'm Brooke and I'm 26 I staying in Blue Island right now with a friend (I'm also recently unemployed if anyone knows a job for someone with a bachelors of psychology).   I had the RNY on December 21, 2004 and it feels like forever ago. I've lost to date 106 pounds.  When I first had my surgery I was so so so so strict with myself.... I excercised every day and never even tried sugar for the first year.  I was so dedicated and I thought that not a day would pass I wouldn't be thinking about this wonderful tool that had been given to me.  Now... almost 3 years later it's become so much a part of my life that I don't think about it any more than I give thought to the fact that I have 2 feet and 10 toes.  The only thing different is that I eat smaller amounts...  I'm not losing anymore... and here is where I need the back up guys.  I think about "them" a lot lately... them you know who they are... the ones who told you surgery was a bad idea... the ones who hoped you would fail and told you that you were taking the easy way out (because getting sawed in half and rearranging your anatomy is so easy)... I'm afraid them are going to win. I know it's my fault... I know that I'm not eating the right things and I'm beating my pouch by grazing ... but it's still there... my tool, my friend who helped me lose this 100 pounds... So I'm making a goal... I want to lose 50 more pounds... I'm not going to set an particular date but hopefully within a year.  Then I want to get plastic surgery to remove whatever skin is left of fatter me.   Can you guys be my back up... I need some encouragment... maybe some cheerleaders... I'm not getting a lot of that right now in my life... this board helped me a lot before I hope it will again... Thanks! Brooke
lippy81
on 10/6/07 11:39 am - Ottawa, IL

THats what the board is for!! You go girl. My agency in ottawa, Il is always looking for people with bachelors in psychology, we have turn around at times. I have a therapist there

Nicolle
on 10/6/07 12:47 pm
Gimme a "B! Gimme an R!" Hey, Brooke. Congratulations on your 100+ pound weight loss. It really is fantastic. Please celebrate that. You ARE a winner. If you never lost another pound, you already have done more than most overweight people ever do. And you have been through a lot already. That said, I know what you mean. The naysayers in our lives seem to have the loudest voices, don't they? They've already made their minds up about you and your surgery, so don't waste your time. You'll never satisy "them." Do your best to stop thinking about "them" and think about you, and what you want.  I know I sound like a bad after-school special, but it really is true. You need to take care of your needs. If you want to say goodbye to 50 pounds, do it for you! Take care! Write the group again when you need a "boost." Nicolle  
C. Richardson
on 10/6/07 9:19 pm

Glad you stopped in.  Many of us do a daily roll call on the IL board.  It helps me to be accountable and I know who I can lean on when I'm having a good or bad day. Sounds like you need to start back at the basics and get "moving" (exercising).

Good Luck on your new goal. Christina

 

 

 

Karen R.
on 10/6/07 11:06 pm
Here on the Illinois board we are always here to give encourgment to all our WLS friends. Anytime you need a boost just pop on in. Like Christina said I would start with getting out and do some exercise.  As far as diet I don't really know much about RNY but if I were you I would stop all sugars. That in its self will help drop a few #'s So pleas stay in touch we are here. Karen

                                                                                                                                         

     
                                                         

     
 

 

    

Ronna
on 10/7/07 3:48 am - Hoffman Estates, IL
Welcome back Brooke!  We are all here for you and as you read on you will see that many of us have/are struggling through the same issues as you. You may want to try the "Resetting Your Pouch" plan to jump start your new focus on weight loss.  I did it about a month ago and it really works.  I am posting it below in case you or anyone else want to give it a try. Good luck, you can do it! ---------------------------------------------

Days One & Two: Liquid Protein

 

The first two days are all liquids. You can have as many low-carb protein shakes as you like to satisfy hunger or cravings. In addition drink at least six 8-ounce glasses of water each day. The purpose of all liquids is to break any snacking, grazing or processed carbohydrate habits. In addition the liquids will work to cleanse your system and prepare you for the following three days. Try to reduce your caffeine intake as well, but do not stop caffeine cold turkey or you will feel sick and frustrated potentially losing the desire to continue with the pouch test. If you notice symptoms of carbohydrate withdrawal you can eat a small piece of melon or an orange. You can also try a dose of Emergen-C which should reduce headache, dizziness or cramping from carbohydrate withdrawal. The next three days you get to eat as much as you want as often as you want! Ahhh, but there's a catch: it has to be solid protein and you only get 15 minutes each time you sit down to eat. Day 3: Soft Protein Protein Recommendations: canned fish (tuna or salmon) mixed with lemon and seasoned with salt and pepper, eggs cooked as desired seasoned with salt pepper and/or salsa, fresh soft fish (tilapia, sole, orange roughy), baked or grilled, and lightly seasoned. This starts your program with "soft" protein. Measure your portion (1 cup volume or 4-6 ounces weight) and eat only until you feel full, not overfull. Remember, no water for 30 minutes before or after you meal, and no fluids with your meal. We are going back to the beginning and fluids will prevent you from feeling the pouch. If you need to add a bit of Miracle Whip or mayonnaise to the canned fish I understand, but keep it to a minimum so the meat is not too moist. One reason we lose the sense of tightness in our pouch is that we eat "slider foods" - foods that are too moist and do not stay in the pouch very long, they slide right through the stoma. Day 4: Firm Protein Protein Recommendations: ground meat (beef, turkey, lamb) cooked dry and lightly seasoned, shellfish, scallops, lobster steamed and seasoned only with lemon, salmon or halibut steaks, grilled and lightly seasoned. By now you should be experiencing that familiar tightness that will reassure you that your pouch is working. Remember to drink plenty of water between meals. Take some time to meditate and rediscover the wonder of your pouch. Often we don't like that uncomfortable tightness of the pouch, which is why we gradually move toward slider foods that don't make us uncomfortable. It is always my preference to eat moist protein so I don't get uncomfortable, but this allows me to consume more than I should. Rediscovering the pouch with this 5-day plan reminds me of how the tool really works. I hope by now you are rediscovering your tool and enjoying the hope and excitement because your pouch still works. A word about constipation: A shift to high protein diet often results in constipation. To relieve this you may try adding a fibrous fruit snack to your morning and a fibrous vegetable snack in the afternoon. Fruit suggestions are apples, berries, apricots, cantaloupe or oranges. For vegetables try leafy greens, zucchini, cucumbers, spinach, summer squash or string beans. Day 5: Solid Protein Protein Recommendations: white meat poultry cooked dry and lightly seasoned, beef steak (if tolerated) grilled or broiled. Remember to chew chew chew. Measure your portion (4-6 ounces) and eat only until you feel your pouch tighten. Remember, only 15 minutes per meal, so you'll have to work fast to chew your food completely. By now you should be out of any carb cycle you were in and perhaps you have lost a pound or two. You will have new confidence in your pouch and your ability to work the tool for your health and emotional well being.

 

Regards and hugs,

Ronna
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