Help! I was denied for the RNY surgery because I did not have One-year doctor supervised diet under my planner. I have been on Weigh****chers for a year, and many others. The only problem is I did not keep documentation of my diets. Please, any advice would help!!!

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Kelli, Meridian is right on the outskirts of Boise, and there is a GREAT WLS community in this area. There is also a wonderful surgeon here in Boise named Christian Oakley. His support group meets once a month and it's a wonderful group of people! There are a LOT of primary care physicians here in town too, that are aware and supportive of weight loss surgery. I would get a referral from Dr. Oakley regarding that. I have my own bias, lol, but I'll let you talk to his office if you want! You can check out Dr. Oakley's website at: http://www.thinidaho.com/ We'd love to have you join us at the support group meeting also! Please feel free to e-mail me with any questions! Check out Dr. Oakley's Patient Forum too: http://www.obesityhelp.com/morbidobesity/forums/?ID=TR-994827309 Best of luck with your upcoming WLS!!! Please let me know if you have any other questions! Kathy

Where is Meridian Idaho? I live in northern Idaho. Glad to have you join our wonderful state. I've only lived here since last August.

k guys i challenge you all to see how many people from your address book that you can get them to sign... her petition site is http://www.petitiononline.com/tlw2dp/petition.html I already have 31 people out of my Address book that have signed... how many can you get... I mean come on she looks like the younger version of Dolly herself... and she has came so far... So i know that if you have a heart then you can do this we are up to 615 people that have signed... come on let**** that 1000 mark.... COME ON LETS DO THIS FOR MISS DOLLY.... SHE SOOOO DESERVES THIS!!!!! manda