The flame never dies because the commitment never ends!

Hello fellow Oher's, I have found this last few months, well years for me but really this last few months having a buddie while you are trying to lose weight is so important, when you are wanting to be accountable on your lifestyle change or any lifestyle change for that matter, it is great to have someone there to help you with it, if you try to go it alone you might be feeling alone, lonely, you might feel abandoned, I just know I might not be as successful as I could be if I had some accountablity to back me up. I say this to my self: Dont do it alone! I make no bones about it, that I am not doing this alone, first and formost I have Alan  my (DH) Alan is a rock solid accountablity partner for me, if you dont have a Alan in your life you should get one,  (I dont mean a husband or wife) I am talking about someone that loves you, cares for you, and will be there for you NO MATTER WHAT.  No matter what you are going thru "you need that for your self" It is just indespenceable that you have that.  You just have to have someone there thats going to be there for you. Now it is so very nice to have On-Line friends , it's good to have a physical person that you can come and talk to and have them kick you in the fanny if you need it and have them love on you at just the right times. I am one of those perople that need a verbal kick in the hiney once in awhile, The Online community and support group members have been fanstic and understand everything I am going thru, these are great resources to stay accountable to.   These people will be there to support you in your life no matter what choices you make, and no matter where your journey takes you. God Bless everyone, Kristy