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Hi I'm debating on what to do. But someone has to do it, I don't know what or how to do it. This ex-friend of mine has a 5 year old boy. He is in timeout all the time for the littlest things. But he gets shoved into the wall by his head and he stays there for 5 minutes or more, if he moves or talks, he gets his head shoved into the wall again. This I know is hurting him. He is also doing things he should be doing at this age (like touching women in the wrong parts). He needs help and so does his mom. But the thing is if I said anything to anybody, I would be threatened like before when she had her other baby taken away (she has had 7 altogether, all of them taken away except for this one). She has come to my parents and smashed in their mailbox, and now since she knows where I live, and what car I drive, I'm afraid something would happen. So I'm debating to not turn her in and hope something happens in the public where someone else sees and turns her in. I guess maybe I am scared for myself being hurt, but the boy needs help too. I am asking for advice and prayers. Thanks Lisa Young

I'll ask you this, how will you feel when that boy suffers a injury that he can not recover from. If your fine with that hanging on your shoulders, then do nothing. However I can not imagine your that way. I would go to the local poilice department, ask for a DHS representitive to be there, explain what you are seeing, and have them deal with it, if she threatens you at all, file a complaint and ask for a restraining order. This woman is a hazard to her kid and the public in general. That young boy does not deserve to live in that situation nor did any of her other kids. It is always the unfit ones that seem to be able to have kids at will.

You need to call your count Dept of Human Services. You can report it and she will never know it was you. No child should go thru that. I think you will do the right thing. Kyle is right...if she starts on your or your family......get a restraining order.... billie jo

You have to get the authories involved. I am talking from experience! I had a two year old great neice who died 2 years ago as a result of all of my family not expecting it to happen to someone in our family. She was at home with my neices boyfriend(not the childs father)while my neice was at work. He claimed she fell from the kitchen table. The injuries that Makayla had were way to severe for that type of fall. She had a seperated skull fracture, broken neck, broken ribs to painful to mention all of them. The sob has not gone to trial yet because his attourneys cannot builld a defense case for him. Please I am asking you to GET SOME ONE TO INVESTIGATE this horrible woman AGAIN! If she has already had 6 kids taken away from her, isn't DHS already involved. I think there should be mandatory birthcontrol for people like her!!!! This child does not have to pay for his mothers pain through his own at her hand. DO THE RIGHT THING AND MAKE THE CALL. The mother does not have to know *****ported her.

Morning Lisa Keep in mind that you are an accessory to the fact if you don't report this & something happens to the little boy. The cost of some damage is nothing compared to the cost of a life, you can replace the material things but not a life. Good luck! Get the authorities involved & damn the material things. Hugs Carolyn

I feel for ya Looks like you have gotten a lot of great advice....I would report this person also.......and you do remain anonoymus (sp) She shouldn't know it was you. I will send well wishes our way Jesi