VENT...OT...I have had it

I quit my job of 2+ years, but that is the good part. before I quit, this woman, she has to weigh at leat 450 pounds, told me shortly after my miscariage...Oh, Tracie I am pregnant...I have to go to the dr to find out if we can keep the baby because it might not have a brain...when I looked at her like she was a freak, she said...oh, that's because of my diabetes medicine and the blood thinners I am on and the high bp meds...they all can cause defects. Here is the vent, and please quit reading now if you can't handle it... PEOPLE, if you are THAT overweight, and taking serious medications like that, USE a FREAKING CONDOM...they sell them at wal mart nowadays...and use a spermicidal cream, AND take the pill. WHY risk birth defects like that? Here we sit trying for 8 YEARS to get pregnant and my miracle DIED inside of me because of stress related issues and she throws this **** in my face. I did EVERYTHING right, I ate right, I exercised, I DO NOT SMOKE DRINK OR DO DRUGS...not even tylenol. ... and my baby died...but and excuse my language, but that fat B**** smokes like a chimney, eats sugary crap all day at work, drinks regular caffinated pop....takes umpteen prescriptions..and HER baby is still living? This is going to sound so horrible, but right now I do not care...I hope her baby miscarries because she is not fit to care for it. To be able to laugh off the baby maybe not being formed correctly because you are too freaking stupid to use proper birth control ....she does not deserve to have a live, healthy baby,.... Flame me if you want, I don't care. I still have broad shoulders, I can take it. People who can't take proper precautions should not be having sex.

HELL YEAH, YOU GO GIRL, I TOTALLY AGREE

I weighed 285 when I became pregnant with my first child...I was on anti-thyroid medication (PTU...15 pills per day) and was put on Diabetes medication (insulin injections) and BP medication AFTER I was pregnant. Not all health risks for mother and fetus can be avoided, unfortunately. I am truly sorry for your loss and the poor taste that the woman expressed herself in...but, to wish harm to her and/or her unborn child is just plain wrong...I hope that once you calm down, you will see that and be able to forgive yourself if she does miscarry. I know that you are speaking out in pain and frustration; but, to resort to the level of name-calling and wishing ugly things to happen to others (especially an unborn child)...well, that's something that YOU will have to live with...just as she will have to live with the consequences of her actions. We are not Gods, to judge who is deserving of life or death... Please, feel better soon...seek the aid of counseling if you are not already; it's nothing to be ashamed of. ~~Sherry E.D.D. of Child #2~~11/11/05 BTW...my first pregnancy I was on BCP, second pregnancy Depo Provera and this pregnancy condoms w/ spermicide...not all forms of BC are 100%...abstinence is the ONLY reliable prevention. And, no matter how much you weigh...a consenting adult has the right to have sexual intercourse anytime they wish to.

I have lost 3 babies so know what the pain is all about. I miscarried twins & had a full-term stillborn daughter. Anger? Yes there was! But I did learn to deal with it. Is there a support group near you that deals with families that have lost babies? If so I strongly suggest you go to it. I had a support group for several years after my daughter's death. If a support group isn't available seek help somewhere else please. Carolyn