Finally told me parents

pheww- what a relief.I guess I was afraid they would not support me - or think I was taking the easy way out. But My Mom just asked some valid questions (why now? good Dr? etc.) and said she would try to help with the kids as needed. She was relieved that I told her lap-band (my cousin has suffered some severe complications after his RnY) and asked where she could do some research. One more thing to check off my list.... Jennifer

Cool, I'm so glad your family is going to support you.. Now I just need to quit being a chicken-poop and tell my dad. I guess I wanted to wait until I was approved and had a date, a set-in-stone date, before I told him. I hope my family will be as supportive.. Best Wishes.. Tracie

Happy you have support from your family Jennifer. It's really important. It's great to have the internet which is so full of info that you can pass on. Keep us posted on how things are going Hugs Carolyn

I was also afraid to tell my parents and they were not happy. The first thing they said was "People die from that". I just told them I would have a greater risk dying from being my size. It did help that they were able to talk about it with my uncle's girlfriend. She had it done and told them to tell me to do whatever I had to get it done. She is in her 60's and said her life improved 100%. Talking to her has helped them alot. They still worry but that is what parents do, right? Its great she would help with your kids. One thing less you have to worry about. Cindy

I bet you feel a lot better. I have only told my 2 sisters and some friends. I haven't told my parents or my grandparents. I'm going to tell them once I have a date. Good job being brave and telling them.

I wasn't nervous about telling my family or friends and rightfully so, as everyone was extremely supportive. They all know how I've struggled with my weight for so many years. You would be frightened if you went to any of my family reunions on either side of my family. There are only about 2-3 family members who are not overweight. I think that once I do this and they see my success, some of them will consider it an option for themselves. I was a little worried when I presented it to my PCP since I remembered how he was so against the Atkins diet when I started it even after my bloodwork came back so much improved after only a few months. I was really happy when he said he supported me 100% and thought it was a very good option for me. One more wee****il I attend the seminar in Cedar Falls and then the process will truly begin. Leslie

Whew! That has to be a load off of your shoulders! So glad to hear you have your family's support. The more support, the better. Remember, we are all here for you, too. LoriW