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Hello all. Im Kristin from the Ames Ia area. If had so many thoughts about having this surgery..it is driving me crazy. I am about 5'11"and weight is 375. I have 6 children(whi*****ludes two sets of twins).I really need someone who can help me through this or go through it with me. Ive never been so scared in my life but know its worth it. My biggest concern is the infection. My body doesnt fight it off very well. I'd be glad to hear any of your thoughts or ideas. Thanks alot!!!!! Kristin

Welcome Kristen. I am just waiting for my surgery date to come (May 24th), so cannot answer those kinds of questions. I will say it's a decision not to be taken lightly, as your whole life and lifestyle will change, but for the better. I researched and pondered having surgery for about 2 years. Though the thought of having surgery scares me a little, thinking about the alternative and everything that can happen to me if I don't scares me more. If you have questions, this is definitely the place to be. This is a wonderful and supportive group of people who are more than willing to share their views, answers, or just to be there for each other. Welcome again!! LoriW

Hiya Kristin & welcome, I just wanted to wish you the best of Luck threw your awesome journey!! Keep your head up and don't worry everything will work out just fine...I to am very antsy & scared about the surgery too,But Im also very worried about my health if I dont have it...I am just now waiting on approval thew my insurance then setting a date... (((BIG HUGZ))) to you! Janelle

If you're concerned about infection, I'd suggest that you look into having your surgery laproscopicly. (I can never spell that correctly!) It's not that you won't necessarily get an infection but the incisions are so small that it's less likely and almost impossible to get a hernia. I think most of the surgeons in Iowa do it Lap now. My surgeon, and I suppose most of them, have you take large doses of antiobiotics the day before surgery to help with preventing any problems like that. I have heard horror stories of infections that have to be kept open to heal from the inside but they are rare instances. Dixie

Morning Kristin WELCOME Any questions, concerns or vents this is the place to come to, we are here to try & help you. I had lap RNY almost a year ago & agree with Dixie talk to the surgeon about this. Recovery time is faster as well & with your busy life that's the way to go. I also have a set of twins, boys that will be 29 yrs old this fall! I also mis-carried a set of twins in 1982. Keep in touch let us know what is going on Hugs Carolyn

Hello Kristin,welcome to the boards this is a good place to be everyone is so friendly and helpful. I had my surgey 2 years ago I lost 170 pounds it was so worth it I would do it again.feel free to ask any questions we are all here for you take care Laurie

Welcome Kristin. You have come to a great site. I am a newbie also. Keep updating here and you will recieve alot of support. Every one has been nice and helpful. Again I say welcome and nice to meet you, Cindy

Welcome to the boards Kristin. This is always a great place to come to get questions answered and for emotinoal support. Best wishes on your journey and let us know. *huggs* Tracie

Hi Kristin!!! I am also from the Ames area and am just starting my journey with wls! Every concern you have is something I have also thought about! If you would ever like to talk feel free to email me!!! Miranda